dysphoria
Went to go out in the parking lot at the gym for a vape break, ran into a New Year's newbie young(er) woman trying to get in to ask about joining. (There's no staff on weekends)
She asked about the staff hours. Without thinking about it because I was checking for all my pockets before I left, I ask her if she can wait and I'll give her a pic of the staff schedule hours and then I can text it to her. Didn't even think about how "oh you're not supposed to go inside as a not-member." I'll give you a pic of the staff hours and then it's all good.
She read me as a guy. (shut up, she definitely did.)
Without thinking of that and how I offered to take the pic for her, realized she probably thought I'm trying to get her number and hit on her
Feel really sad and gross once I realized that
Like jfc honey, I'm so sorry, I (kinda) like women too but you had no clue and I swear I wasn't a creep
Also if I had referred you for a membership that'd be like forty bucks for me lmao