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[–] [email protected] 55 points 1 day ago (5 children)

Imagine people being racist.

Thank you for attending my TED talk.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 day ago

No no no. They are not racist, just curious (answer of my colleague when pressed on his questions).

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[–] [email protected] 110 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Missing the classic, "You speak so well!" Like, wtf, did you expect me to speak in pure jive and clicks???

[–] [email protected] 20 points 1 day ago (1 children)

What it is big mama? My mama no raise no dummies. I dug her rap.

[–] [email protected] 20 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Cut me some slack, Jack! Chump don' want no help, chump don't GET da help!

Jive-ass dude don't got no brains anyhow! Shiiiiit.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

I can't stop laughing at this comment, I can hear it.

[–] [email protected] 273 points 1 day ago (4 children)

I'm white, and married to a black woman. Gotta say, this is pretty accurate. Add shitty service from wait staff when the white person a table over gets regular checkups, and doctors not taking anything she says seriously, even when her symptoms are obvious. And people being rude to her when she asks a question, but nice to me when I ask them the same question a moment later.

It's one thing to know, in abstract, that racism exists. But experiencing it through what my wife goes through on a daily basis has really opened my eyes. It feels like we exist in 2 separate worlds when we're not out together.

[–] [email protected] 143 points 1 day ago (8 children)

doctors not taking anything she says seriously, even when her symptoms are obvious

I'm married to a white woman, and she also experiences this, so this might be a gender discrimination problem, rather than (or in addition to) a racial discrimination problem, sadly.

[–] [email protected] 70 points 1 day ago (4 children)

I think it's both. It probably starts with gender discrimination (as the medical field highly favors men. Look at the differences in how we are taught about heart attacks for men and women for example) but then on top of that, it adds the racial discrimination.

Black women (and especially queer black women) are among the most discriminated groups sadly

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[–] [email protected] 35 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Well known gender thing, worse for women of color.

[–] [email protected] 15 points 1 day ago (1 children)

The prejudices stack together, unfortunately

[–] [email protected] 8 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

This RPG's rules are bullshit!

[–] [email protected] 4 points 18 hours ago

Welcome to #outside

[–] [email protected] 27 points 1 day ago (4 children)

Older doctors were literally taught that black women have a higher pain tolerance. This in part originated from an early gynecologist doing experiments on black women slaves without bothering to give them any anesthetics. His justification for it was basically that they could handle the pain, and there are doctors practicing medicine today that still belive it.

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[–] [email protected] 33 points 1 day ago

To add: some of the comics, as well as your, examples are good examples of intersectional discrimination. To take a particular one: the doctors-not-taking-you-as-seriously thing happens to all women. But it's much worse for black women in particular. And it's also not as bad for black men as it is for black women.* So, that's an issue she's facing in this severity because she's black AND a woman. There are many such intersectional issues, and it's important to acknowledge and work against them. Anything related to children is similar.

  • I remember that from a statistic, I'll try to look it up if anyone would like me to
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[–] [email protected] 19 points 1 day ago

What is sad is that this will be viewed as normal and acceptable next year because saying it's not acceptable is "woke."

[–] [email protected] 30 points 1 day ago

It doesn't matter what the stats are, it's insanely rude.

[–] [email protected] 64 points 1 day ago (16 children)

Here's a bonus I saw at college: "Can I touch your hair?" it's an especially weird one.

[–] [email protected] 58 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

I was blonde growing up in a middle eastern country and people used to want to touch my hair all the time. It's just curiosity.

[–] [email protected] 19 points 1 day ago

No, it can only be white on black racism

[–] [email protected] 41 points 1 day ago (1 children)

white guy here.

I had a lady do that to me and my beard in college.

it was weird at the time but scratched a physical contact itch I had no idea I had. the interaction started a long lasting infatuation with black matriarchs.

my point is, it's fine to tell people no because it's a limit of yours, but some people get curious about things that are new(to them) and it shouldn't be held against them. who knows you might even like it.

[–] [email protected] 38 points 1 day ago (1 children)

The problem is volume. You had one interaction years ago. Black ladies get this sort of thing a lot more. I'm sure it gets exhausting.

[–] [email protected] 38 points 1 day ago

This is only tangentially related to the point but when else am I going to get to share this story:

I'm a tall white dude with long, thick, slightly curly hair (when short it curls, when long the weight pulls it into waves), my entire life it's been expected of me to just let women touch my hair and go "god I wish I could have this" or similar

I had a few black girl friends (note the space) growing up and they saw that a few times and we bonded a bit on this hair shit, but they were actually shocked that people at least asked them whereas I'd get molested without asking

One day an older black woman did it in front of my friend Alex and she puts on her heaviest "I'm from the ghetto bitch" accent and yells "nigga why you not even ask to touch his hair? You're a sistah, you should know better!" And smacks her hand away from me

The look of shock on that woman's face and level of apology she gave me was the weirdest fucking thing I've ever experienced racially in my life. I got to see, just for a moment, what it looks like when white people realize theyre being super racist and want to undo it. It was awkward as fuck

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I'm a Latino and I grew out my hair during the pandemic with the goal of donating it. My hair comes out curly when it is long. One day, when we were back to seeing people face to face, a black woman asked if she could touch my hair. I was a little surprised that she asked, lol.

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[–] [email protected] 77 points 1 day ago (2 children)

I'll give you a bonus one: "But where are you originally from?"

[–] bdonvr 31 points 1 day ago (1 children)

"where are you from?"

Here.

"But where did you grow up?"

Here.

"Where were you born?"

Here.

"But where were your parents from?"

The town over.

"Okay but where were your grandparents from"

[Other country]

"Ah okay now I can finally put this label on you and refer to you as [country]an whenever I talk about you and hang all these assumptions on you"

[–] [email protected] 2 points 19 hours ago

I got in trouble for this once lmao

A group of teenagers showed up to the charity event my club worked on every year. They all knew each other and I was curious what organization they might be a part of, so I asked one "so where are y'all from?" Only then did it occur to me that they were all Hispanic and the poor kid, looking unbelieveably annoyed, firmly told me "here." I was able to stumble into my real curiosity but God that was embarrasing.

[–] [email protected] 40 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

Or white person: “You speak [West European language I was raised in] very well”

Me: “Uh thanks you too”

White person:

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[–] [email protected] 39 points 1 day ago (9 children)

What type of racism is this? It’s an everyday sort but contains institutional and casual types. Is there a label for it?

[–] [email protected] 82 points 1 day ago (2 children)

30 Rock had an episode where Liz thought Tracy couldn't read. I loved his label for it:

"The subtle racism of lowered expectations."

[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

“Bing Crosby said that!”

“…no, Bill Cosby said that.”

“That’s racist!”

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[–] [email protected] 38 points 1 day ago

yeah, prejudice.

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