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Hello everyone! Hestia here with a new Megathread! Years ago, before I transitioned and when I was still in college I took an anthropology class. My favorite part of the class was when we were covering different gender customs across the globe and got to make a report on one of them. I can't remember exactly which one I chose for that project, but what I do remember is a map with different pins scattered on it with various forms of gender-queerness. I decided to track it down and share it with you folks!

https://www.google.com/maps/d/u/0/viewer?ll=8.016975588774075%2C64.4248907814756&z=2&mid=1zDWxhBN5aOofwpE-FkZWQsiFDlE

Edit: you have to open this in a browser, if you're on a phone it will automatically try to open it in Google maps and won't bring up the info.

This map provides a brief summary of these genders, but does not go in depth. If you find any you're interested in, feel free to do some further research and share your findings here. I'll pin a comment to this post you can attach them. I'm going to share a couple that I found interesting and decided to look further into myself, both of them are non-binary and native american in origin.

The first one I want to talk about is the Winkte, which is a third gender role that was particulatly notable in the Lakota tribe The Winkte are seen as half-men, half-women, and considered sacred. They are typically AMAB and historically have served unique roles in matters of romance and matchmaking and often served as intermediaries for prospecting couples and their families. They also participated in war parties, functioning primarily as witnesses to battle and as doctors to care for the injured. They were also seen as seers, able to forsee paths to victory.

https://www.sdpb.org/blogs/arts-and-culture/the-winkte-and-the-hundred-in-hand/

This next one I'm going to talk about seems mostly local to the Zuni people called the "Lhamana" and I find the Zuni culture to be particularly fascinating, even just doing a cursory glance at it.

Gender roles were well defined in Zuni culture, but the Zuni also valued the concept of a "middle" as it represented stability. This originates from their creation myth, which I won't go in detail here because I don't feel qualified to summarize it, but it's in the link down below.

The Zuni culture is pretty neat and they don't refer to gender when talking about children. They believed that gender wasn't an inborn trait but something you acquired as you approached puberty. I wish this was the western approach, but alas.

As children approach puberty they begin to differentiate through different hair styles or clothing choices. AFAB Lhamana would grind corn and make a bowl of stew when they get their first period. There's probably some cultural significance to this, but I'm not going to do a deep dive on it right now. AMAB Lhamana would start to wear dresses once they hit puberty and start performing women's work. Both AMAB and AFAB Lhamana were allowed to switch between male and female gender roles as they pleased.

https://owlcation.com/social-sciences/The-Middle-Gender-in-Zuni-Religion

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[โ€“] [email protected] 15 points 2 days ago

My doctor: get your cholesterol under control and then we can raise your dose

Okay but I'm too depressed to have be able to stick with a diet can we just try increasing the estrogen and manage everything from there?

I unilaterally decided to up my dose my just taking more. Only up to the minimum recommended dose for two weeks now I think. I haven't felt better in ages and finding the motivation to eat healthy, get exercise, and socialize, has never been greater. We really need to drill into the medical community how important HRT is and to get up to an effective dose asap. Maybe it's a placebo but it feels real and the effects are real so w/e.

[โ€“] [email protected] 17 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Bit idea: dismiss all non-queer media forever

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[โ€“] [email protected] 13 points 2 days ago (2 children)

I spent years putting together my wardrobe. If I start hormones, are they still gonna fit??

Oh shit, this is bad! Will my new fleshy bits be contained??

[โ€“] [email protected] 13 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Bad news, they might not fit because good news your body is gonna change shape

I had to toss most of my old boy clothes (way too tight in the chest and ass now). I don't fit some of the clothes I got earlier in my transition as well :(

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[โ€“] [email protected] 15 points 2 days ago (1 children)

looking in the mirror and seeing a visibly fucked up clocky trans girl, which is fair because i am a visibly fucked up clocky trans girl

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[โ€“] [email protected] 17 points 2 days ago (1 children)
[โ€“] [email protected] 12 points 2 days ago
[โ€“] [email protected] 13 points 2 days ago (2 children)

whats the gender neutral form of the word dude?

duden?

[โ€“] [email protected] 13 points 2 days ago

I believe that dude has evolved to take on a gender-neutral form, but I would rather just never be called any variation of dude when there's so many cuter things to call me.

[โ€“] [email protected] 10 points 2 days ago
[โ€“] [email protected] 13 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Wait days to get a call back about sperm banking in case I want to have kids in the future.

Get called back in the middle of the work day

Person on the phone who's supposed to be "courteous and confidential" asks me questions I can't answer without announcing to the office I'm getting my jizz froze and takes ages to switch over to yes/no

Get told they don't take insurance for this (no mention of that on the website)

dog-screm

I hate this shit. I hope my therapist can help me w/ resources. For anything medical I usually rely on my mom for help but that's a no go here as she doesn't even know I'm on HRT

[โ€“] [email protected] 12 points 2 days ago

I ended up not freezing any. It wasn't worth the cost vs starting hrt for me, at the time.

[โ€“] [email protected] 11 points 2 days ago (4 children)

Is your therapist a social worker? I think Social workers can be good at helping get through that. Sadly starting hrt was delayed quite a while for me while I sorted out the conflicting info and poor communication between my urologist and the fertility clinic.

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[โ€“] [email protected] 13 points 2 days ago

Hmmmmmm I'm soooo eepysleepy today~ (I was kept up till 7am by chronic pain but still woke up before noon) catgirl-flop

[โ€“] [email protected] 12 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (7 children)

I lifted arm-L madeline-smug arm-R am on drugs today so tbh why not. Long may it continue...

[โ€“] [email protected] 11 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

Ash getting zooted on creatine. I'm here for it. (For anyone watching don't overdo creatine, pretty sure it can damage your kidneys or liver)

[โ€“] [email protected] 12 points 2 days ago (1 children)
[โ€“] [email protected] 12 points 2 days ago (1 children)

NO STAHP! I NEED YOU TO HAVE HEALTHY ORGANS!

[โ€“] [email protected] 12 points 2 days ago (1 children)

My organs are probably rekt already soz berdly-smug

[โ€“] [email protected] 10 points 2 days ago

Damn I need to find another source

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