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I've been away long enough that I noticed this "howdy" side to the site and decided there was no better place to visit first. ralsei-wave

I've lived just about all of my life in California and have worked as an educator, along with numerous and varied proletarian jobs with varying amounts of precarity. While some seemed to have liked it there, even thrived there, I hated it there. Just being in the teachers' lounge, or for that matter existing in public, seemed to be an open invitation to be involuntarily exposed to the worst of "hustlegrind" and "startup" culture. It may have been because of the specific area I was in (if you know Mountain View to Palo Alto to maybe Sacramento, you'll get what I mean), but these intrusive interactions, where a stranger could and would (if you look passably us-foreign-policy perhaps) get propositioned to "get in on the ground floor" with some grift or another, were bleakly common. Similarly, because of the sort of painfully privileged yet socially malnourished environment, just about nothing was discussed by my fellow faculty or other people I associated with except the pop cultural monoliths of the time, which I had to absorb via cultural osmosis in the worst way. Anticipating grading papers for the next few hours didn't get any easier when "DAE LE RED WEDDING?!" and "DAE LE SHAME, SHAME?!" was all anyone around me wanted to talk about, unless they were discussing some investment or how "epic" (yes, that old stale word remained in vogue way after its expiration date) someone's new Tesla was.

soypoint-1 my-hero awooga libertarian-alert hypersus soypoint-2 debord-tired

That's why I risked everything, cashed in my retirement fund early, and with eyes forward to becoming a father and finding a better place for my family, I moved to the Atlantic northeast to start an agricultural project that I intend to expand beyond sustainability into a communal project curry-space . It's hard work, and of course it's hard work, and it's still a work in progress. For OpSec reasions I don't want to get into too many details there except to say that it's all a work in progress and it's difficult, but rewarding. touch-grass .

I like it here. I like it here quite a bit. There's funny people, weird people, even scary people here and there around me, but I haven't had a single conversation that I would qualify as "bazinga" since I arrived. I haven't seen a single ZYBERTRUKKK either, except pictures of them getting mocked on the internet. billionaire-tears . I don't know if it's just the area I now live in or if it's a larger cultural shift, but as far as I can tell there's no more pop cultural monoliths that I had to be force-fed just by being around hogs gobbling up the hog slop, being it "historically accurate" or "satirical" or whatever. morshupls

I bring that up because I have no great interest in waddling into the slop anymore, to argue about it or against it for that matter, largely because I have not had to for almost a year now, and that makes a huge difference. sweat

I still set aside time to write when I can, and my next novel project is nearing the completion of its first draft. For those curious about that, there's no mecha this time (THIS TIME cyber-lenin ), and it's a more contemporary setting with only some slight background science fiction elements. I may share more details about that in an upcoming post if there's interest.

I hope you and yours are well, comrades. avoheart

EDIT: I accidentally said "there's mecha this time" instead of "there's no mecha this time" and corrected that immediately. sicko-wistful

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[-] [email protected] 70 points 10 months ago

Everyone missed you so much there were multiple threads about you

I'm serious go look

Anyways thanks for finally killing Kissinger and welcome back

[-] [email protected] 73 points 10 months ago

Anyways thanks for finally killing Kissinger and welcome back

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[-] [email protected] 49 points 10 months ago

I'm serious go look

I'm not sure I want to, considering my rent-free status with some people.

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[-] [email protected] 69 points 10 months ago

start an agricultural project that I intend to expand beyond sustainability into a communal project

you moved to get away from hustle and grindset yet you are hustling and grinding. Curious.

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[-] [email protected] 41 points 10 months ago

dennis Building an autonomous collective.

[-] [email protected] 52 points 10 months ago

How the hell did you manage to come back right after there was a thread about you with hundreds of comments? hypersus michael-laugh

[-] [email protected] 48 points 10 months ago

I took a peek after someone told me about that.

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One peek was enough.

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[-] [email protected] 51 points 10 months ago

ALHAMDULILAH HE WAS LURKING ALL THIS TIME!!!!!

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[-] [email protected] 47 points 10 months ago

I wanted to thank you all for the warm welcome back. I have to be off for now, but I definitely missed it here and I will return again soon. logout

[-] [email protected] 43 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

the trans community is bigger and better now and will never stop posting

Idk if you saw the polls but about half the site is trans and about 66% are queer

you can find all the trans related happenings here : https://hexbear.net/post/3016455

we also now have 30 mods + 15 supportive admins on traa making our space likely the most effectively ~~policed~~ militia'd and transphobe-free & large public facing trans spot on the internet very-smart

the trans mega suddenly got very big and averages 2000-3000 comments each week and we have a public chat that gets at least a thousand each day. ive also been working on building connections to the wider trans community so more people know about us

[-] [email protected] 27 points 10 months ago

big shout out to @[email protected] who is very awesome for setting the megathreads up for success over many months :cat-trans:

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[-] [email protected] 42 points 10 months ago

Welcome back Kissinger Killer dead-motherfucker

[-] [email protected] 35 points 10 months ago

I'm getting that a lot for some reason. amogus

[-] [email protected] 41 points 10 months ago

Everyone determined that it was you who killed him when he died lol

[-] [email protected] 38 points 10 months ago

Well, when my third book launched and I even arranged a megathread to talk about it, Elizabeth II died roughly at the same time, so it's some kind of weird energy around me sometimes. hahaha

[-] [email protected] 23 points 10 months ago

I need you to make a big announcement on election day, it's the only way we get the year of the 4 presidents.

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[-] [email protected] 33 points 10 months ago

Funny. While you were gone, I too have been working on a fun project. About 3 months in now, actually

Thanks for killing Kissinger and good to see you back, bud

[-] [email protected] 34 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

YOU ARE RISEN soypoint-1 trans-hatch soypoint-2

EDIT: I mean that in the warmest and most joyous way, and I'm glad to see you again too!

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[-] [email protected] 32 points 10 months ago

He is risen elmofire

[-] [email protected] 32 points 10 months ago

Oh hey there! Welcome back!

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[-] [email protected] 29 points 10 months ago

Hiiiiiiii welcome back we missed you!

[-] [email protected] 23 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

Nice to see you, too!

I look forward to our next struggle session about subjective experiences or whatnot. approaching-1 approaching-2

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[-] [email protected] 26 points 10 months ago

Welcome back. Everytime a lemmitor used the phrase "Its almost as if..." you were missed

[-] [email protected] 26 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

I've been away from CA for almost a year and I haven't heard anything like that in person in a long time AND I STILL FUCKING HATE IT. guts-rage lemmitor

[-] [email protected] 26 points 10 months ago

go away you were free - don't succumb to the posting again Ulysses! We await your next big move on the world's stage (may I suggest another doohickey??) god bless rat-salute

[-] [email protected] 23 points 10 months ago

I can't stay for that long especially when I have more stuff to do where I can't get away with sneaking online as often, so I'm returning to freedom fairly soon today. you-are-a-serf

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[-] [email protected] 25 points 10 months ago

so, how many unread notifications did you have?

welcome back to the posting wars, comrade 07

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[-] [email protected] 25 points 10 months ago

Welcome back! You still have the phylactery bits from Kissenger or was it totally consumed? Cause we could probably drag him back in & outta hell with it like a dunkstool.

[-] [email protected] 22 points 10 months ago

Cause we could probably drag him back in & outta hell with it like a dunkstool.

Isn't this a fine enough viewing perspective?

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[-] [email protected] 25 points 10 months ago

I don't think we ever interacted but I liked your posts, welcome back. skeleton-wave

[-] [email protected] 22 points 10 months ago

Glad to be back, even if I have to post in short controlled bursts these days. skeleton-guns-akimbo

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[-] [email protected] 25 points 10 months ago

welcome home

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