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TOPPED RULE (lemmy.world)
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[-] [email protected] 124 points 1 year ago

Still means "bested" to me. I'm not hip to sexual slang.

[-] [email protected] 62 points 1 year ago

Clearly you are if you know what type of slang "topped" is lol

[-] [email protected] 109 points 1 year ago

At my age I just assume anything I don't know is sexual.

[-] [email protected] 68 points 1 year ago

Don't you come "bussin' no cap" at me young man, I'm happily married.

[-] [email protected] 31 points 1 year ago
[-] [email protected] 28 points 1 year ago

Are you... are you hitting on me?

[-] [email protected] 12 points 1 year ago

Reading all this, I gotta ask; Did it work?

[-] [email protected] 25 points 1 year ago

Yes, veroxii and I are married now.

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[-] [email protected] 10 points 1 year ago

Neil : "Ah, here's one. This means that someone has just done something which has never been done before. 'Richard Moore of Sugarland, Texas, hollowed out an eggplant and filled it with hot sauce and nickels.' And amazingly, it's not a weird sex thing. 99% of all new human behaviors are weird sex things. But not in this-- oh, no, it is a weird sex thing, yeah."

[-] [email protected] 27 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

It's clearly sexual from the context of the meme. Pretty much any time this happens, it's sexual in nature. Otherwise it would just be confusing rather than presented as humorous.

[-] [email protected] 37 points 1 year ago

"Topping" means taking an active role in sex, whereas "bottoming" is a passive role.

[-] [email protected] 19 points 1 year ago

Nyeah... partly.

If that were entirely true, a "power bottom" would make no sense.

The terms sexual usage originated in gay circles where it only delineates who penetrates and who gets penetrated. Traditional views on sex ascribe a submissive or passive role to the bottom and an active or dominating role to the top, but you can totally have a power bottom who takes control and an active role in the intercourse but is the one getting penetrated.

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[-] [email protected] 91 points 1 year ago

At least she didn’t pull a boner.

[-] [email protected] 38 points 1 year ago

I'll show them how many boners Betty can make!!

[-] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago

She can pull three boners simultaneously

[-] [email protected] 65 points 1 year ago

My favorite is the Nixon campaign buttons that says "They Can't Lick Our Dick"

[-] [email protected] 85 points 1 year ago

That's not a language change, they knew.

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[-] [email protected] 12 points 1 year ago

You shall rue this day apparently.

[-] [email protected] 16 points 1 year ago

What's the actual meaning of boner?

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[-] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago

I'm assuming boner here means mistake but actual boners can be mistakes sometimes and lead to unintended consequences

[-] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago

I half remember being told this originally came from bonehead. so like a bonehead would make a mistake like that. which then got shortened to boner.

[-] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

there was an 80s kids show where one of the characters was literally named boner lolllll

[-] [email protected] 56 points 1 year ago
[-] [email protected] 54 points 1 year ago

Good for her.

[-] [email protected] 43 points 1 year ago

I dunno, the looks on the bystanders faces implies it's got the same impact as it might today.

[-] [email protected] 32 points 1 year ago

Get topped idiot

[-] [email protected] 30 points 1 year ago

What is this supposed to have meant?

[-] [email protected] 115 points 1 year ago

She got one upped, outdone, lost to her rival, and now needs to take it in ass again from her.

[-] [email protected] 51 points 1 year ago

Mmmhmm, yup, yeah, wait...wut??

[-] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I've seen the source, it's all true. That's why they eventually formed a poly triangle with Archie, and, occasionally, The Predator.

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[-] [email protected] 12 points 1 year ago

But as an old fucker, I don't know the current meaning.

[-] [email protected] 16 points 1 year ago

the same one, but it's used in a sexual context. Being the top is being the dominant one on a relationship, sexually speaking.

[-] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago

Oohhhhhhhh. Thanks

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[-] [email protected] 29 points 1 year ago

Something like "one-upped", I believe.

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[-] [email protected] 25 points 1 year ago

Bottom energy.

[-] [email protected] 24 points 1 year ago

I wish that was me

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[-] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago

This apparently changed around the same time people stopped using "Give 'em the high hard one".

[-] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago

If you want some cultural whiplash, read the first Archie comic. You'll know why when you get there.

[-] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago

I read it, no clue what you were referring to

[-] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago

I read it just and there was definitely some very 1940s lingo but was there one in specific that you were referring to?

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[-] [email protected] 26 points 1 year ago

lol I'm not reading 60 pages of ancient manga for a single joke

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[-] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago

As another example, the man isn’t queer at all.

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