Oh my god that looks delicious
klemptor
Jackson Caw-llock
That bunion is gnarly
Hide your cats!
Thanks, but my bloodwork is excellent - no deficiencies! My hair and eyes are doing fine too. I'm naturally very pale, and very pale people tend to be sun-sensitive. In fact, I've had to have a number of precancerous spots removed from my skin. Physical sunscreen (zinc & titanium) are a must for me according to my dermatologist. But thank you anyway for your feedback!
Ahhh it's Bowie, lookin slick as hecc!
Is he named after the tea? Because if yes, that's super cute 💚
Beautiful beastie!!
Yeah, you're overreacting a little, but more importantly, you can't control him, nor should you want to. His decision to use drugs is his alone. What you can control is your involvement in the situation.
Listen. You probably love this guy a lot, but he's not giving you what you need at this point in your life:
- He's too depressed to interact in the ways you need and the result is that he's neglecting you (also, is he even trying to tackle his depression in any meaningful way? Therapy, medication, etc?)
- He's making objectively poor decisions (fucking meth, ffs!)
- He lives too far away for a viable day-to-day relationship
- He's not honest with you
- He's distant and pushing you away
And your reactions aren't healthy. You're upset that he's doing things you don't approve of, and you say:
I would never do things i know he doesnt like for fun
but this isn't how healthy adult relationships work. You are too entangled and you're blurring the lines between his preferences and yours.
You can't fix him. Think of this relationship like a broken vending machine. You put your dollar in, but it doesn't give you the snack you're trying to buy. So you put another dollar in, but your snack still doesn't come out. How many dollars do you feed the machine before you accept that it's broken? The analogy here is that you can pour all the love and caring you want into this relationship, but it isn't leading to the result you want. You're in a relationship but still deeply lonely, and your partner is doing things that actively cross a line with you. Don't keep wasting your emotional energy.
At this point, staying with him because you've been together for nearly 3 years is a sunk cost fallacy. It's really unlikely that things will improve with him at this point, and staying together just keeps you stuck in a bad situation, preventing you from finding someone who actually meets your needs.
You know you ought to break up with him. You can still care about him from afar, but you need to disentangle from him. He is his own responsibility, not yours. And it's OK to be single for a while! I would urge you not to jump into another relationship straight away. Right now, unhealthy relationship patterns are normal for you, so you should take time to process and recover, don't just rebound. This will help you find a healthy, mature partner when you do start dating again. And you deserve a fulfilling, healthy relationship!
Good luck!
I remember learning about bouba/kiki in grade 1... until today, I assumed all kids did!
Rubber cement
I sincerely hope this is ragebait. If not, go fuck yourself you goddamn asshole.