It's a very good book, all in all. I still don't think anything has really surpassed it in terms of being a book-length theorization of the specific misogyny faced by transfemmes – you can find scattered critiques on the internet, mostly bad ones, but I just don't think posts really matter in comparison with books. And yes, it is only being ignored because, frankly, society at large hates us and the idea that we face a specific kind of oppression, even though it's blindingly obvious, is very hurtful to the egos of a lot of people who consider themselves leftists.

I need to get back to working on the book, only ever finished the first few chapters. Just what I've read though has been so incredibly useful, I wish more people would read the damn thing but they won't because people don't care about trans women.

Is there some big problem with the book that makes it not actually a good book that I'm missing?

Not really, no. Unless you consider the somewhat dated language a problem (which honestly some people are going back on now), Julia Serano wrote a very very good transfeminist text. The problem with that (and my answer to your next question) is that, how often do you see transfeminists actually talked about in the mainstream or at all for that matter?

Thankfully in recent weeks, at least 3 "big" trans youtubers (Alexander Avila, Philosophy Tube, and I can't remember the last one I saw, maybe Avelo?) have referenced Whipping Girl and Julia Serano in their videos. (Naively) Optimistically this could put a few more eyes on it which would only be a good thing.

I myself am constantly referencing the text when discussing (trans) gender politics with (cishet male) friends as well as when commenting online.

I love this book. I think about the text so often in my life. I immediately bought the paperback after I officially started coming out and could actually have physical objects relating to my transness. Before I read the book I was already sorta on the path to actually understanding intersectional feminism, but Whipping Girl cemented my resolve to really "get into" transfeminism.

I also sincerely wish more people trans or otherwise would read Whipping Girl, not just in spaces like this where we openly embrace theory, but even in less leftist spaces as well. Unfortunately in today's day and age, getting people to read books is like pulling teeth.

okay its a book thank god

I haven't read it, or really heard about it, but adding it to the TBR. Thanks!