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[-] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago

Unjust Depths, just talking about our protagonist

I wanted to write a lil appreciation of Murati Nakara because she is a wonderful bean.

When you first meet her in the intro to Unjust Depths she almost seems kind of silly. The only things she really has going on are her girlfriend Karuniya, (they seem to have an uncomplicated and wonderful relationship) her skill at diver piloting and her ambition in the military. To be honest, early on I had thought she didn't really have any flaws, but she takes a good while to unfurl and bloom as a character.

Murati is not among the several autistic lesbians in Depths, that I know of anyway, but her staunch hard-headedness is very appealing! Much later in the series she's talking to this scientist lady who knew her parents, the famous revolutionaries the Nakaras, and she is borderline affronted when science lady says "Yeah they did a lot of great shit but they were mostly just oceanographers lol, idealists really" and it's borderline adorable. I can really respect how strongly she feels about her Mordecist beliefs and sense of justice. When she first steps off the Brigand and into an Imperial city, her moment of utter shock at a capitalist hellhole that leaves its people destitute and homeless is superb for her. Murati might be a military-strategic galaxybrain and a steadfast revolutionary, but she's also somewhat green, and her single-minded commitment to justice can sometimes cause problems, like she bothers Captain Ulyana for money to try to house these homeless guys in the Empire, holding up a critical extraction mission.

What I really want from her is more flashbacks, though. Stepping back in time about fifteen years and finding out that not only has Murati always been like this, but she was equally loud and brash about matters of her gender is a wonderful thing. She went from "good" to "great" though when she gave her adoptive parent Deshnov shit about his goofy-ass "allowed you to go on tbose medications" spiel.

It's fairly uncommon to see trans kids in fiction, unless it's some kind of Young Adult, coming-of-age story I guess, likely because the vast majority of trans people now still transition in their 20s or 30s. I'm weird though, and so the idea that an indignant, righteously angry 12 year old Murati had to lash out against Deshnov (and probably everybody else Idk) to get her way and be who she is? Wow, she just like me, fr fr. That's something I can really relate to, and even just hinting at that kind of hardship for her has me deeply invested basically for free. I feel a great affection for the First Officer, the Brigand couldn't ask for a better Diver Leader and I'm always excited when she is onscreen. Murati, my beloved ❤

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[-] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

shaved my chest, shaved my back, epilated almost all of my legs and feet, been shaving my face far more regularly. oh god it's really happening i'm transing my gender. i'm honestly running out of body hair to take off

[-] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago

I just bought the at home laser hair removal thing aubrey-happy

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[-] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago

I saw the Braun IPL 5 Silk Pro (think that's the name) recommended here last week.

Apparently, you can get near permanent results in just a couple months.

It's in the mail now, and I'm gonna nuke my legs when it gets here!

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[-] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago

takes big swig of fuckitol fuck this. tomorrow morning i'm going to planned parenthood and asking about HRT in person

[-] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago

lets-fucking-go YOU CAN DO IT

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[-] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago

writing is hard. RantingI have been questioning my gender (a lot more recently). And I felt it was like a puzzle, and I was slowly putting it together, and I could see the outline of what I think is an egg [of course I question if I am just hallucinating and it isn't an egg]. But I was coming to a halt, I had a problem, I was out of puzzle pieces. I didn't know... what to ask myself to figure it out. Of course the answer is just to go and get the puzzle pieces: TO READ. To understand gender better, who knew. Not me, not this :lib:.

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[-] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

oh my god why the fuck do i want to out myself to my parents. i haven't been emotionally vulnerable with them like this since i was like 15. they've never respected my emotions. my dad makes casually transphobic jokes all the time. i loved fantasizing about literally never outing myself to my parents and cutting them out of my life why do i keep crying at the idea of outing myself in the next week or so

they're trying to take me to europe on vacation for like 2 weeks. honestly i didn't want to go at first but trying to go through international airport security as a trans woman sounds nightmarish, i'd really rather just not. plus i keep reading too many stories about planes just fucking falling apart mid air to want to board one anytime soon

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