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Weekly Trans Megathread for the Week of 4/1 to 4/7
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this post was submitted on 01 Apr 2024
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Things continue to get better and better between my partner and myself.
boring relationship stuff
I'm starting to get over my fears of talking about my transition with my partner, and we've been having some of the best conversations of our 10 year relationship. He keeps reiterating how much he loves me and that he's not leaving. Which are things I desperately needed to hear. I've stopped presenting as male at home pretty much all the time now. He's also started to gender me differently at home which has been incredible. He referred to me and my dog as ladies last night and I nearly died.He's also expressed his fears. Which are the same fears I have. Societal backlash, family issues, friends, employment. We live in a safe neighborhood in a safe city, but we are surrounded by an ocean of reactionaries. But I legitimately feel like we can overcome anything together.
In other semi-related news, my therapist diagnosed me with OCD on Tuesday. Which isn't surprising really. I have some powerful compulsions that are driven by an extreme fear of rejection. I'm pretty sure most of my internalized transphobia comes from those same fears of rejection. I know for a fact that my complete inability to talk about this stuff with my partner is driven by those fears.
All in all it's been an interesting week. .
Love to hear it, glad your partner is a chill dude
Sounds like you're in a pretty good spot honestly, happy for you.