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[–] [email protected] 25 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago) (2 children)

Coworkers have starting teasing me about my hair because I've been growing it out. Say it looks like Gene Wilder's (it does). But, like, Gene Wilder is awesome?

Another coworker says I look like Timothy shalomet (I don't), and he sure is pretty. Do they just think I have a magical Wonka aura?

Anyway, I take this as evidence that my hair is reaching outside the bounds of Acceptable Male Gender Expression, so the enforcement is now taking place. That's good I guess.

One of them asked me if I ever want to be a woman, and I said sometimes.

I mean, some of these people have seen me off work with makeup, earrings, hair styled, and femme clothes, and they still don't get it lol. The cis really do be oblivious sometimes.

They just think I'm "fashionable" lmao

[–] [email protected] 11 points 7 months ago (1 children)

Damn someone just asked you that? Cis ppl be wildin.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 7 months ago (1 children)

Yeah she's weird >.>

Overall, she's sweet, though. Just kind of oblivious about queer stuff. Normal where I'm living

[–] [email protected] 8 points 7 months ago

Mhm it's not a bad question on its own, just kinda wild, where I am cis ppl usually walk on eggshells and never acknowledge queer stuff lol

[–] [email protected] 7 points 7 months ago (1 children)

As a male presenting person it’s infuriating constantly hearing people tell me to cut my hair now that it’s beyond the acceptable male hair length. I think it’s gonna get so much worse when I get earrings :/

[–] [email protected] 6 points 7 months ago

Who knows, once you get the earrings, things might click for them.