What are you expecting to have them send you? A link to a paper proving that having empathy for fellow humans means you are not conservative?

Bro. Just like, think about it.

OPs talking points align nearly perfectly with normal progressive talking points.

Increase high density housing.
Increase public transport.
Public safety net (housing for the homeless).
Redistribution of wealth.

What it likely boils down to are the two conservative talking points they have left, guns and reproductive rights.

If OP truly feels that abortion is murder and believes in his heart that he has the right to dictate his own personal beliefs on others, and / or has fallen for the lie that the left is going to take their guns away (they won't), they will vote Republican despite everything else pointing to the logical choice being a progressive Democrat.

Edit:
I feel I need to mention that just because I (a man) personally cannot imagine a scenario in which I would need to get an abortion (because I lack ovaries), and my current life situation is such that I don't forsee my partner requiring one, I still will vote to protect women's right to bodily autonomy. I strongly believe that I have no right to even participate in the discussion. My opinion is literally worthless, and I don't have to live with the consequences of my vote.

That being said, I take the position of provide access to abortion but also provide services to women to try and decrease the need for abortion. I also am in favor of providing free healthcare to pregnant women and children of families in need of it, and I believe childcare should be subsidized.