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are you out to her? I'd just out yourself to her, if not. that will make her feel safer telling you herself.
nah i wanted to wait until i was officially no longer in management. i wanted to remove the power dynamic first.
i'm still technically acting manager until we hire a new FT person and my assistant takes over. i mean for me it's whatev i'll keep getting the $22 an hr and don't even open my emails anymore lol
do i sound paranoid or does that make sense?
I think outing yourself is fairly safe and not really making use of the power dynamic. you're not pressing her to out herself, just creating room for her to do it if she wants to. I think, if anything, it'll make her feel safer, knowing her manager is also trans, even if only temporarily -- she has allies if she wants them. I would not press her to come out, though.
wouldn't coming out imply i know she's trans? i mean i know she has good baby leftist politics (hasan watching demsoc) and i've made it clear to my crew i'm a filthy commie.
i have thrown as many eggy hints as possible but at work i go hard with boymode most of the time
maybe i should just do it i hate social anxiety overthinking just don't want to her to think her BFF fucked up
not really? if you know she's a baby leftist, you can play it off like you know she's a real ally.
yeah ur right thats probably the safest strategy. i'll go for it when i have a good private moment at work. i'll let you know how it goes