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Tea Time! - Trans Megathread from August 10th, 2026 to August 16th, 2026 (thelemmy.club)
submitted 3 weeks ago by to c/traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns@hexbear.net
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this may be early, don't worry about it, pin it whenever

First mega wooo, now I get to have my inbox flooded!

Friendship ended with coffee, now tea is my best friend. No promises but I'll try to post about a different tea each day!

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[–] [S] 13 points 3 weeks ago

been there comrade. at my first local trans meetup, i dressed masc and introduced myself with my deadname. i wanted to die, it was really hard to show up so inauthentically to a crowd of authentic people

my strategy was a list, made a list and wrote a bit about why i did or didn’t feel attracted to certain names. idk if you’re american but i also used the social security baby names list from the year i was born to check vibes https://www.ssa.gov/oact/babynames/

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