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Ya girl is getting the hell out of [red state] and moving to [city in blue state] this week! Will edit mega with more later perhaps.
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There is always hope that a strong domme will come into your life and treat you terribly
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Removed my bullshit. Kink is fun, just stay safe.
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Being a domme isn't about abuse. It's about giving pleasure and caring about someone. Some shitty people will confuse the two, but yeah, don't sign up for abuse, bdsm is about trust and respect, above everything. Being kinky and being shitty is completely different from having sexual fun::: spoiler spoiler
I'm.not saying domme=abuse, but exactly what ur saying that people will use the language and talk the talk but then flip it around. Idk, I love being kinky, its joyous and fun, but there are shitty people out there. Its part of why community is so important, so you can vet properly.
If I'm not communicating well my apologies, I can pull down or edit things to be more clear if thats helpful. I'm not wanting to scare people away from kink just, like, I see people around me trusting others they really shouldn't, and walking away worse for wear after the months they spend.
Nah I was just trying to make the point that this is all about trust. I knew you weren't saying that, but someone could interpret it differently. I completely understand what you're saying though lots of shitty people use kinks as a way to be awful.
Ah gotcha. Sorry I got a bit defensive, ive had people use similar lines to defend kink as a whole including shit behavior and I think i read intent into your words that wasnt there. Genuinely kink is fun and I love being a subby impact bottom, but yeah it has its share of risks and dangers
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Unrelated to your conversation, but reading the phrase "I love being a subby impact bottom" made me feel as if a control LED hidden deep inside my punching arm just switched from standby to on.spoiler
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spoiler frustrated I really need to plan a scene/some playtime. Ive been so overwhelmed lately that its been pushed to the backburner, but like not only is playtime so fun its also one way I de-stress and gosh I could use some de-stressing.
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Naaaw, thank youAnd yeah, i agree on the de-stress stuff, one of my favorite things about domming is to see when my sub is finally able to let go and enter subspace and be free of all those anxiety-causing responsibilities. It feels good to have the power to flip somebody's off switch like that, to make a difference in their life.
Really, don't worry about that, better to be safe about atuff like this, and I'm not the best at expressing myself anyway, so no worries
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At least in my case I think I might actually want someone to be shitty to me. Feels like the only way I'll get the affection I want is to also submit to some kind of physical abuse. Plus it almost takes a little bit of the guesswork out of when the universe will decide to harm me next if it's coming regularly from someone I knowspoiler
Don't let people be shitty to you, someone will want to do that for you, but only let them if they're trying to do it in a healthy kinky way