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Mainstream holidays are not enjoyable
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this post was submitted on 17 Jul 2026
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It's funny how it changes at different times in your life. We have an all-inclusive holiday with my wife, sprogs and extended family booked in Lanzarote this October.
Exactly the kind of thing I'd have thought of as a living hell when I was a young man, backpacking solo through SE Asia.
But honestly I'm looking forward to it having done my first package holiday a few years back. Decent and varied food, booze and sun by the beach with plenty of activities for the Little People, leaving me to read by the pool. Bliss.
Did it change, or do you realize that backpacking through SE asia with responsibilities would kinda suck compared to doing it without responsibilities? And that an all expenses paid vacation when you have responsibilities is really nice, but limiting if you have no responsibilities...
I think you're absolutely right, but I think the point still stands that it depends broadly on what stage you're at in life. I can certainly envisage a time when I'm older (touch wood), where I'd want a different type of vacation from either of the ones I mentioned.