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[-] Sodium_nitride@lemmygrad.ml 10 points 18 hours ago

Pretended to be happy today.

It worked

Although that may have been cause I talked to my friends and drank beer.

Well ... they still misgendered me constantly and I didn't stand up for myself at all. So that was fun.

I can't imagine myself standing up for myself even when I'm happy. Cause I don't really care about myself. If I did, I'd be taking a lot more steps towards social transition.

[-] Alisu@hexbear.net 10 points 17 hours ago

Are you out to them? Because if they don't respect you, then they shouldn't be your friends.

[-] Sodium_nitride@lemmygrad.ml 4 points 12 hours ago* (last edited 11 hours ago)

I am out yo them. One of them I've had extensive discussions with.

As for respect, nobody respects me sigh.

[-] Alisu@hexbear.net 4 points 3 hours ago

You shouldn't be giving any of your time to people that do not respect you. You need real friends that value and treat you well.

[-] Sodium_nitride@lemmygrad.ml 4 points 2 hours ago

I can't leave them. I'm already so lonely. I know what I'm supposed to do, but that's for when things are in better conditions.

[-] Alisu@hexbear.net 2 points 45 minutes ago* (last edited 45 minutes ago)

I hope you can get out of that situation. Please value yourself and get better friends. Do you have access to any LGBTQ+ groups or any place where these kind of cool people hang out?

[-] Sodium_nitride@lemmygrad.ml 2 points 22 minutes ago

I don't think, but I've never really checked. I tend to lock myself up in my room.

[-] Sodium_nitride@lemmygrad.ml 4 points 18 hours ago

Amazing how even my happy moments are so pathetic.

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