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I wish I could truly believe that passing didn’t matter
Passing matters to me but its more about how I feel about myself rather than fitting in to some platonic feminine ideal. Theres lots of misogynist trash the hegemonic feminine ideal Im happy to toss - I love dresses but I like wearing pants, I like work and I get a lot out of my work, I like girls (and boys lol), I like more alt vibes (dye my hair, pierce, etc). But I like passing and I get a lot of joy when people say the right pronouns or say Im a girl you know the deal.
I respect people who want to go stealth for safety or because theyd rather just never think about being trans. Im not stealth. Im totally open at work, at home, with friends and family, including when I worked in ppediatrics. I would never judge someone for not passing though - Id never say someone was being trans wrong or they should try and pass more or in a way I think they should.
Idk how anyone could think that