18
submitted 4 days ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

I've been finding myself struggling with insane levels of burnout over the past few weeks and was wondering how others navigate it. I used to feel similar burnout as a child/teen and just withdraw for months or at one point years at a time with minimal socialization or just let hyperfocus consume me and get absorbed into a singular hobby often at the detriment of other things. When both of those don't work I would just set myself up to be overwhelmed with an impossible stack of tasks to induce anxiety as a driver. The first two I feel I can't do anymore due to being a lot more disastrous in adult life and also antithetical to what my current goals are.

I recently finished a master's program and around when that high ended I noticed the burnout creep in. I am trying to set other goals such as organizing a local chapter of the org I joined but all of my current goals are hinged on other people and their pace which I don't want to rush but I feel this soul-deep exhaustion creeping in that I know tends to suck me into listless and lethargy. I can't fully rest, but can't charge forward to maintain the runner's high anymore either and it's driving me a bit nutty.

you are viewing a single comment's thread
view the rest of the comments
[-] [email protected] 7 points 4 days ago

Mostly I don’t, but also stardew valley

[-] [email protected] 4 points 4 days ago

Counterpoint: don't fall down this rabbit hole, because it may just make the burnout even worse, and completely ruin SDV for you in the meantime.

I don't know what I want to play now, but it sure as hell isn't Stardew for a while. Although the hermit challenge sounds good for a laugh...

[-] [email protected] 3 points 3 days ago

I don’t let myself try that hard. I will not touch prairie king, think too hard about side quests, or even things like community center bundles. I play for vibes, and the second they’re off I’m putting it down and walking away.

So yeah, I’ve had to make some adjustments to keep it at least partly effective this time around. But that doesn’t mean it’s particularly effective lol. I think I mainly use it as a way to force myself to disengage for a bit.

this post was submitted on 31 May 2025
18 points (100.0% liked)

askchapo

23016 readers
54 users here now

Ask Hexbear is the place to ask and answer ~~thought-provoking~~ questions.

Rules:

  1. Posts must ask a question.

  2. If the question asked is serious, answer seriously.

  3. Questions where you want to learn more about socialism are allowed, but questions in bad faith are not.

  4. Try [email protected] if you're having questions about regarding moderation, site policy, the site itself, development, volunteering or the mod team.

founded 4 years ago
MODERATORS