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Dating while boymoding - advisable? (hexbear.net)

submitted 3 days ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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idk as valentines day is coming around i feel especially lonely, but trying to date would open up a whole other can of worms.

To make sure someone would be attracted to me as I am now and as I (hopefully) will be, they'd basically have to be bi. But that feels like a very weird requirement to put out there... plus the idea of having to identify as a guy in a dating app is not an appealing one. this sucks.

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 3 days ago (1 children)

But that feels like a very weird requirement to put out there

Two points 🫶

Firstly, you're not putting a requirement on anyone, you're filtering out people you don't want to be with. Would you date a neo-nazi but put in the requirement that they change or simply filter out neo-nazis?

Secondly, you're dating for you. Whatever filters, requirement or hatever preference you have for a partner are valid because you are doing this for YOU and if for whatever reason you don't want to be with someone then you don't want to be with them and that is the only reason you need to not be with them.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 3 days ago

I appreciate the sentiment, and I think "filter" is a good word for it—it's not that I want to date bi people in particular, it's just being realistic that anyone who's strictly into women probably won't be into me atm.