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thank you for the kind words, some of this is definitely useful for me to reflect on.
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i think i can relate to the longer term, "stoking the fire" thing. when i read stuff that turns me on i definitely feel the slow burn building up and when it's burning i can start to feel capable of active irl horny. could be something to explore more from that perspective. i can relate to the kink stuff and needing roles, etc. as that's always been a thing for me too with sex, and something i'm accustomed to already but maybe my tastes have changed a bit and that's an aspect i need to reflect on. i think maybe i just need to kind of take a clean slate approach and figure out what works for me at this later stage in transition due to changing preferences as well as my diminished ability to just become insta-horny. probably something to try to adjust to, come to terms with to some extent and work on cultivating a new approach that works for me as i am now, instead of trying to just revert to young super-horny me, if that makes sense. i haven't had sex for a while either so it's probably something i need to get back into at a steady pace rather than trying to rush. your response was very thoughtful and thought-provoking, i really appreciate it!