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[–] [email protected] 15 points 4 months ago (1 children)

seriously considering the idea i might be bigender but in a way that's like... only 8-15% male and the rest female. i don't know what to make of this

[–] [email protected] 8 points 4 months ago (1 children)

We know. The 8-15% is kiryu-approaching

spoilerFor real, though, why do you think you're feeling that way? If bigender is embodying two genders at once, how does that man-ness manifest for you? Or what do you identify as that masculine gender?

[–] [email protected] 8 points 4 months ago (2 children)

We know. The 8-15% is kiryu-approaching

sh-... shut... h.... shut up madeline-angry

on a serious note though, I'm genuinely kind of unsure? I'm on Estrogen and loving every last bit of it, and am planning on or have at least seriously thought about getting basically every trans femme procedure/transition process imaginable. I wouldn't mind at all to never again being able to pass as male, but there is just some part of me that feels... not super sure in going 100% in on being binary femme? Like there is one little part of me that feels kind of still male in a weird way I can't quite explain. Gender is complex and there's a lot of ways this could end up being expressed? Maybe I'm just more of a butch trans femme? Maybe I actually enjoy being a woman with some notably masculine traits to her? Maybe I am just a little bigender? Maybe it's something more in the realm of genderfluid? I'm still very new at this whole transitioning process and I have a long time to figure this out, but unsure about myself isn't fun

[–] [email protected] 6 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (1 children)

I came into transitioning thinking I was a binary she/her, and now lean much more being a dyke-y little goblin girlthing that prefers ‘they’ just as much as ‘she.’ Transitioning is a process for sure! Experiment and try different pronouns and styles as you are already doing.

Love seeing in your posts how much beautiful self discovery that you have done since egg cracking. transshork-happy

[–] [email protected] 4 points 4 months ago

I've come a long way since my biggs posting days. I wonder how he's doing up in the big hamster wheel in the sky

[–] [email protected] 4 points 4 months ago (1 children)

Gender isn’t real. Call yourself whatever you want and do what feels good, but there’s no real exact quantifiable gender you can search for.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 4 months ago

true but I also think categorizing myself as 8.2% male is funny