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[โ€“] [email protected] 12 points 8 months ago (2 children)

brainworms/deworming and bottom dysphoriaI'm struggling to put it into words, but I think I felt like I needed to be okay with my genitals. Like I'd be a bad trans person if I wasn't.

And chat, sometimes I do want a vagina, and that's okay. It doesn't mean I hate myself or being trans.

So yea, bottom dysphoria is back and less repressed. Why must there be so many bad thoughts out there on trans people's genitals and how they should feel about them :ohnoes:

[โ€“] [email protected] 10 points 8 months ago (1 children)

Wanting certain genitals and disliking the ones you have seems normal to me. As long as you aren't gatekeeping others by their genitals or what genitals they want or plan to keep, there's no problem imo.

[โ€“] [email protected] 10 points 8 months ago

I know its normal, I've been trying to get rid of some of these weird ideas about what I (personally) am "allowed" to want.

Body stuff is complicated ohnoes Society does not help.

[โ€“] [email protected] 9 points 8 months ago (1 children)

being stupidanya-heh You had a buncha cisnormative brainworms about other things but the reverse for your own anatomy? Lol your brain seems to wanna fight you.

Thankfully though the good thoughts are all here! It is in fact okay to want a vag! Bottom dysphoria returns lfg!!!!! (Not pleasant but yknow)

[โ€“] [email protected] 6 points 8 months ago (1 children)

hey now :/ that's rudeI may have some how over corrected during the brainworm removal process. Yes! Its constantly fighting me, I need it to stop doing that owl-pissed

Accepting my own feelings as valid is nice comfy

[โ€“] [email protected] 6 points 8 months ago (1 children)

uh I meant like I am being stupid, sorryThat is actually kinda funny, lol. Battle your brain 'cause the way to feel about your anatomy is however you feel abt it โœจ

Fuck yeah that shit rocks comfy-cool

[โ€“] [email protected] 6 points 8 months ago (1 children)

I was just jokin' around, because brainworms badIt is a little funny I suppose, too susceptible to bad vibes about myself. I'm battling as much as I can!

[โ€“] [email protected] 5 points 8 months ago (1 children)

ohhhhhagni-pain I am so good at reading tone, I am a 100% socially adept person

Also lfg! Good vibes only bridget-vibe