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Trans Megathread for the Week of 8/5 - 8/11 (hexbear.net)

submitted 6 months ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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alright gang, we need another win over the news mega this week! keep those numbers up and keep being trans as hell cat-trans meow-knife-trans

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (1 children)

It can be very difficult from an ace perspective in figuring yourself out and deconstructing what sex means to you and if you can even enjoy or want sex this can be hard to figure out.

Then there is the expectations on top which needs to be deconstructed also along with consent.

The wiki has some information for your girlfriend that may be of use but it can be a long process. It would be advantageous to start there

My wife and I are both acespec and have spent years working through trauma etc.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 5 months ago

Thanks! Yeah, there's trauma on both are ends that's made communication difficult. I'll dive into the wiki.