Sometimes I think I want a relationship but then the dude starts flirting back and I get scared and back out. (hexbear.net)

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The fuck? Do I want to date or not? What is wrong with me?

Shit is dangerous to do, I've had guys get very pissed at me for this behaviour.

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[-] [email protected] 11 points 1 year ago

wanted someone I actually cared about to appear which oddly enough happened about a month after I decided to stop with dating.

how did it happen?

[-] [email protected] 21 points 1 year ago

Guy I met at work years ago I was very fond of and was friends with through shared work trauma. Ended up moving in together and some nights we'd drink and he'd listen to my rambles and then it got gay after doing some wholesome friendly spooning like you do with your friends. He's the only person in my life I have a deep trust for and the rest was just luck I guess.

[-] [email protected] 15 points 1 year ago

Oof my cynical crusty heart is revealing its soft romantic core

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