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[–] [email protected] 10 points 6 months ago (1 children)

I’ve been on a shitty dose of spiro and pills on and off for years, but I just recently have been taking cypro and injections for 3 months-ish

[–] [email protected] 14 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago)

3mo stable is no time at all, you got this. quite a lot of people begin to pass around 2 years, some take even longer than that even. im of the opinion that the vast majority end up passing (as a person that organizes trans stuff IRL for 10+ years now), cis women are a very wide group.

if you ask around on tttt and most trans places, most people are early transition and very doomer. people eventually grow out of this as time goes on, and they leave these places. a goal of mine here is to try to buck this trend and have people from all stages that feel comfortable, so we can organize better aid for people in early transition.

ime, best thing to do is to try to find your "least bad" routine (for me i just wore skinny jeans and a tshirt) and stick to that and sort of hibernate until things get easier. i found things very hard early on and only felt safe dressing androgynously, whenever i dressed super feminine i felt like it accented my masculine parts too much and it made me super self conscious. over time, this concern went away as my body changed. this is just what i did, probably isnt the perfect thing to do for everyone, but for someone with ptsd and stress issues, it was great for me in hindsight.