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[–] [email protected] 9 points 6 months ago (1 children)

bottom surgery discussion, dysphoria

Thank you comrade, mostly wrestling with my own brainworms here, as I don’t really give a shit about what they think, just wondering if I might change my mind in the future. Really I want this dick gone more than anything.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 6 months ago (1 children)

spoileroh I definitely get the brainworms lol. knowing you absolutely want a vagina is good progress already on the what ifs. it probably shouldn't be relied on too much, but there is the possibility for a revision if you want full depth down the line. I'm not sure if that helps to hear? also, if you get full depth and realize you don't want it, you can let it close. both of those should probably just be worst case scenario options, but they exist. I can personally vouch for letting the canal close too.

anyway, this is an exciting first step! have fun rock climbing

[–] [email protected] 8 points 6 months ago (1 children)

spoilerIs there any complication if you let the canal close? No worries if this is a dysphoria inducing question for you.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 6 months ago (1 children)

spoilerpersonally, my surgeon said there's no issue with letting it close on its own and he even checked to make sure things were okay earlier this year. I'll be there again in two months for the phallo consult, so I'll ask him to check again, but he's been quite confident that it's fine

[–] [email protected] 8 points 6 months ago (1 children)

Thank you for letting me know, I really appreciate it.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 6 months ago