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[โ€“] [email protected] 8 points 7 months ago (1 children)

I keep having bad experiences with it where my friends straight up don't even notice I'm trying. I was talking with my friend and switched to a subtly "femme" voice while talking about the idea of voice training and this bitch turns to me with a bright smile and says "You should try your voice training right now" like i hadn't already been doing for the last 45 seconds

my other friend told me "idk i just hear [my name]" when i tried switching. holy fuck i'm putting such effort and thought into what i'm saying and people straight up don't fucking notice

[โ€“] [email protected] 8 points 7 months ago

Unfortunately, the first couple steps are not very noticeable. It takes mastering a lot of techniques to get to that point where it's clearly different to those that hear your voice often. I think it took me around 2 or 3 months before people started to hear a difference. This is definitely a skill that requires a massive amount of effort and a massive amount of time investment. It's hard af, but holy hells it is worth it.