Hoping to hear everyone’s week went well this past week. Go out there and have a great week this week everyone! 
this post was submitted on 27 May 2024
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hey everyone if you're gonna get electrolysis, make sure to not change the topic of conversation to bizarrely intimate details about your sex life while I'm electrocuting your cock and balls. happens more often than you'd think and is pretty gross and I had to implement code of conduct forms and fire a client last week. which is fucking wild, I take this work extremely seriously, bottom surgery prep is my top priority work, it takes a lot for me to say "yep I don't wanna see you again"
also make sure not to say things like "wow I'm in subspace" or any other fucking weird ass shit you wouldn't say to your barber or some other service worker
I feel like a lot of my clients think "wow you're trans, I'm trans too, we can talk about anything!!!". No we can't, you're a stranger, don't tell me weird ass shit in the first hour of knowing me when I'm supposed to be providing important care to you. maybe eventually when we're pals we can talk some freak shit, but holy fuck
"wow, I'm really in sub space right now
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"Good, then listen to me. Shut up and don't talk to me for the rest of this session
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honestly the worst part is that in the moment I'm so laser focused on my work that I'm like "uh huh, yeah, haha, cool" and then it's only in hindsight where I think "what the fuck" and then feel like an idiot for not saying something
What does “in sub-space” mean??? 😧😧😧
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While there may be a more exact definition, it's basically when a bottom really gets into their submissive role."Subspace refers to the trancelike state some submissives experience during BDSM play. While subspace can feel different for different people, many describe it as feeling “light,” “floaty,” or “like mush.”"
Oh
Some people are just far too comfortable talking about sex in situations they shouldn't be. There have been multiple times where a person (in a relationship even) would just way over share and make me uncomfortable.
Sorry you have to deal with that.