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I had a similar thing around my facial hair before i began transition. I hated it, but i also loved it because it hid my face. I had a big dysphoria beard, and shaved it a couple times, but every time i just let it grow back because what was underneath was so alien and weird and bad. Do you think youd like your face more if it were more feminine? Like dont try to focus on specific parts of your face, maybe dont even look in the mirror.
I think focusing on specific things can be a bit of a trap, both in that one can develop dismorphia, and in that ones transition might not change those things.
hrt risks (also just my opinions and not comprehensive and are specific to me and my risk assessment i did before starting transition)
Trying hrt is low risk in some ways, but that doesnt mean no risk. One should be ok with the risks before starting. The big one is that one may become sterile depending on how long one is on hrt. The others include genital atrophy and breast growth, but with genital atrophy it can be combatted to a certain degree by maintaining bloodflow for ~10 minutes every few days, and with breast growth one can always get a mastectomy (its probably easier to get if the doctors think their patient is a cis man, cause gender affirming care for cis people is common and simple to get comparatively)I definitely swing the other way with it and shave it all.
I don't know
I like feminine faces, and I definitely do not like mine, but making my face more feminine is so different to me. Like just a weird feeling idea. If I felt like it was mine (I feel like a fake a lot) I think I'd like it more.
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That page said cis people would know it wasn't right very quickly (paraphrasing, can't find the exact page atm), so I guess I thought I'd know quickly.I thought those were semi long term things, like 6 months to a year? But yes, those really are my two biggest concerns, especially if I'm unsure. It'd be a while before I could realistically start so I have more time to decide.
edit: honestly maybe it doesn't even matter rn, I wouldn't be able to get it for a while anyway.