It sounds like what you and your partner have is really beautiful, I'm so sorry about everything you've gone through.
My partner and I reached this point once before, we broke up and lived separately for a while. I'm so so thankful that we made our way back to each other and now our relationship is stronger than ever. I hope you make it through this time as unscathed as possible, and live long enough to know happiness again. Much love comrade.
That sounds great, I'd appreciate any recs if you don't mind sharing!
My partner has been nudging me to read "Repairing Play: A Black Phenomenology" by Aaron Trammell for a while, I should really get to it.
sending hugs ʕっ•ᴥ•ʔっ
I feel you :(
And I don't have enough self respect to stop myself from doing it. I guess the trick would be to find better friends, but that's very hard
Hell yes @ turning off upbear numbers. Makes this site useable honestly
Hello my friends 
I'm eastern european who sadly ended up in the ukkk, so I'm posting here to say hello. I'm very aware that I don't really experience racism like a lot of my comrades here, so I won't take up too much space mouthing off, unless I've got something to share in the replies or need to scream about some xenophobic bullshit, hope that's cool.
Sending love to all my em poc comrades 
amber whataboutism volcel police...