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submitted 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

So I know everyone is going to answer "yes", but I want actual real thoughts. I just want to know where I fit in.

I'm AMAB, and present as male, at least on the surface. I've always felt that was wrong though. But I don't necessarily think I'm a woman. I wish I was more feminine. And recently I started full body laser hair removal, and I have pretty long hair, and currently have my toe nails painted. But I also have a beard, and otherwise present totally as cis.

Am I "trans"? I don't feel "cis", but I feel like calling myself trans just isn't accurate and is inappropriate. Is there any other option?

And a complicating factor is that I'm basically only attracted to female presenting people. I see a lot of mtf trans people posting online "t4t". Would other trans people consider me "trans"?

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submitted 11 months ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

I'm having some personal issues causing some severe depression and anxiety. I'd like to get past this time as fast as possible, and my days are dragging on. I can't sleep, which would be a good way to make time go fast. But I also can't just play video games, I don't have the motivation to play more than a few minutes and it also just makes me realize how alone I am with no friends or anyone I can connect with emotionally and I spiral into my anxiety and depression.

I can do stuff during the day, run, chores, etc. But as soon as I'm done, especially at night, I start freaking out and it seems like time stands still. Does anyone have any suggestions? Activities I can do that are mindless that will just kill time and get me through the night before I can just go to sleep?

I know this question is stupid but I'm looking for at least somewhat serious answers.

[-] [email protected] 61 points 11 months ago

Why wouldn't it be?

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submitted 1 year ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

I'm struggling to figure out how to make friends without having Instagram or any other social media. I have discord but don't use it much. I see all my acquaintances in discord channels and sharing Instagram posts and stuff. It's already hard for me to make friends, but I feel like not having any of the traditional social media means I'm not included in any of that stuff.

Do you just accept that Instagram and shit are the way people interact and use it?

[-] [email protected] 53 points 1 year ago

No. People who don't think sexist religious conservative values should be applauded. This is basically orphan crushing machine material

[-] [email protected] 60 points 1 year ago

and any other term used to deprive Americans of their First Amendment rights

Pornography should be outlawed

Lol

[-] [email protected] 60 points 1 year ago

Also kde is way better about this than gnome. Especially kde 6.

Discord is blurry because it's an electron app, and electron isn't native Wayland. You can make it work with --enable-features=UseOzonePlatform --ozone-platform=wayland

[-] [email protected] 53 points 1 year ago

What the shit is this article? I get the style they were going for, but come on

[-] [email protected] 50 points 1 year ago

Look at Mr well adjusted over here who actually likes their parents

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submitted 1 year ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

Are newspapers really generating just-in-time AI generated articles based on random search engine searches? I searched DDG for "derpibooru top artists" and this was like the 4th search result.

[-] [email protected] 113 points 2 years ago

You're not using your bed right now. Are you letting a homeless person sleep in it?

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submitted 2 years ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

You create a new user to repost that users content from reddit? This is absolutely ridiculous. You make it so we can't block your spam by blocking the bot user if you create a new user for every post.

[-] [email protected] 44 points 2 years ago

This. Tbh this shit just confirms my attraction to women.

My cis-genderness on the other hand...

[-] [email protected] 66 points 2 years ago

Because literally everyone on Lemmy is 35

[-] [email protected] 82 points 2 years ago

I have no idea what any of this means

[-] [email protected] 71 points 2 years ago

If the community in question was adorableporn, then this whole thing is crazy. No one in that community looks even remotely underage.

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