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[-] Triumph@fedia.io 157 points 2 days ago

To be fair, the equinoxes and solstices are found in nature.

[-] Seleni@lemmy.world 17 points 2 days ago

But also, to be technical about it, the holidays actually celebrating them are still a human invention.

[-] Dasus@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago

Meh, invention seems something a tad more in tentional. I think nature sort of gave us the solstices, we used them for some reason or another, but then they were too far apart and that's when we invented holidays.

[-] egrets@lemmy.world 3 points 2 days ago

And by extension, Yule and Christmas, Ēosturmōnaþ and Easter, Samhain and Hallowe'en.

[-] dumples@piefed.social 4 points 2 days ago
[-] TropicalDingdong@lemmy.world 38 points 2 days ago

Lunar new years?

The harvest?

[-] dumples@piefed.social 3 points 2 days ago

I would say something lunar based would be natural.

The harvest would depend on the plant. You can really harvest something most of the year

[-] TropicalDingdong@lemmy.world 17 points 2 days ago

If you are in the northern hemisphere, the vast majority of plants go dormant almost all around the same time.

[-] Triumph@fedia.io 2 points 2 days ago
[-] dumples@piefed.social 10 points 2 days ago

Weird calendar to season mismatch.

[-] Triumph@fedia.io 2 points 2 days ago

Perhaps not a holiday in the strictest sense, but definitely because of a natural occurrence

[-] dadarobot@lemmy.sdf.org 7 points 2 days ago

what is the natural occurrence? the calendar is not part of nature. its basically a rounding error.

[-] Triumph@fedia.io 2 points 2 days ago

The number of days do not align with a single revolution around the sun.

[-] dadarobot@lemmy.sdf.org 3 points 2 days ago

yeah actually you are right. my bad. 

[-] jaybone@lemmy.zip 2 points 2 days ago

But the calendar itself is artificial.

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[-] _stranger_@lemmy.world 33 points 2 days ago

The Solstices: Am I a joke to you?

[-] Siethron@lemmy.world 5 points 2 days ago

I'm partial to the the Vernal Equinox

[-] Kolanaki@pawb.social 2 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

Other than witch covens, who celebrates those as holidays?

[-] bestagon@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago

You’re not in a coven?

[-] hperrin@lemmy.ca 5 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

Christians. They just call it Christmas, do it a few days later, and don’t admit that it’s a celebration of the winter solstice.

[-] Kolanaki@pawb.social 2 points 2 days ago

But christmas is the 25th. The winter solstice is not a set day. They did steal some of the ways pagans celebrated the actual solstice, tho, cuz they knew what they did for "fun" was hella lame and it was the only way to trick pagans into joining their cult.

[-] Johnmannesca@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago

Easter is a pretty similar story actually

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[-] lightnsfw@reddthat.com 32 points 2 days ago

I don't care for romance personally but if other people want to celebrate their love for each other why should I have a problem it? The world is miserable enough. Let people enjoy things.

[-] hesh@quokk.au 43 points 2 days ago

Made up by cultural heritage VS made up by capitalism

[-] Abedtime@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago

Capitalism is cultural heritage atp

[-] abbotsbury@lemmy.world 0 points 1 day ago

I am racist against capitalists.

[-] MissJinx@lemmy.world 4 points 2 days ago

I only care about hollidays I don't have to.work

[-] Madzielle@lemmy.dbzer0.com 26 points 2 days ago

I found my people.

I can't stand this day. It actually took me a few years to get my husband to believe me, I don't want anything, and I don't celebrate this holiday.

I don't need corporate amerikkka to tell me when or how to love, while charging me for the privledge to buy landfill trash.

I love my partner every day, and we celebrate that on our anniversary.

[-] Grandwolf319@sh.itjust.works 19 points 2 days ago

Winter solstice: am I a joke to you?

[-] Pacattack57@lemmy.world 14 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

The difference is that Valentines Day is a corporate holiday to get you to spend money. Versus Presidents’ Day which is nothing

[-] agamemnonymous@sh.itjust.works 3 points 1 day ago

The only time I ever hear about President's Day is advertisements for President's Day sales.

[-] Pacattack57@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago

Exactly. Your significant other isn’t guilt tripping you into spending money on Presidents’ Day. Easy holiday to ignore versus our society having emotional breakdowns because they were forgotten on Valentine’s Day or their partner didn’t do enough to make them feel special.

[-] schnokobaer@feddit.org 11 points 2 days ago

I don't think it's a dumb, made up holiday, just a dumb holiday that nobody cared about until Americanism swept it into my country and I'm inclined to disacknowledge just about all of those.

[-] Rooster326@programming.dev 5 points 2 days ago

It isn't Americanism.

It's Capitalism.

Valentine's day is propped up by so many industries.

[-] exasperation@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 1 day ago

Isn't the same true of, like, Diwali or Chinese New Year, or Eid al adha?

People make a big deal about holidays, pretty much regardless of cultural origin or economic system. And then the merchants will tend to accommodate the way people in whatever culture celebrate that.

Valentine's probably doesn't even crack the top 10 in terms of holidays that change my behavior or spending, and I say that as someone who genuinely likes to do something for my wife on Valentine's. There's the major cultural ones (Christmas, Thanksgiving, Halloween, New Year's) and then the legal ones (Memorial Day and Labor Day) that are nice to plan long weekends or barbecues around.

[-] aeronmelon@lemmy.world 13 points 2 days ago

Day of the Dead can stay, because it’s awesome.

[-] ObtuseDoorFrame@lemmy.zip 6 points 2 days ago

I'm ace. Fuck Valentine's day. I'm as used to getting human coupling shoved in my face as I can possibly get, but today just reminds me how much of an outlier I am.

Asexuality is the one sexuality no one talks about, ever.

[-] eneff@discuss.tchncs.de 10 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

What does valentines day have to do with sexuality? I thought it was about love.

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[-] marzhall@lemmy.world 4 points 2 days ago

Bojack Horseman has some good rep, but before that, yeah, I can't think of anything off the top of my head. An explicit "Ace day" seems silly unless pitched as a self-care day, I guess?

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[-] Babalugats@feddit.uk 5 points 2 days ago

Is valentine's Day a holiday in some parts of the world?

TIL.

[-] Pat_Riot@lemmy.today 14 points 2 days ago

In the US holidays are for capitalism selling its products. Often it is candy, liquor, cut flowers, or some combination, oh and decorations, cards, themed clothing...

Let it sink in that the US love to celebrate Cinco de Mayo. Specifically, white, conservative voting Americans love to celebrate Cinco de Mayo, a day that they will tell you is the Mexican 4th of July, as they get piss drunk on Corona light.

Or how we treat St. Paddy's here...

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[-] Zink@programming.dev 2 points 1 day ago

We can be pretty loose with our usage of "holiday" in the US. Like some others said, this one is basically just peer pressure for consumerism, lol. Nobody gets the day off work or anything like that.

I mean, I think it would be awesome if Valentine's day were a federal holiday where we all stay home and focus on those closest to us. So in addition to romantic couples, that includes self-care for folks living alone and family time for those of us with kids.

But in 2026 that idea also sounds profoundly un-American. Fuck. Some of us are still trying to be decent humans in functioning communities.

[-] starik@lemmy.zip 2 points 2 days ago

It used to be a Christian feast day honoring martyrs, so it’s just a real as Christmas. It was 100% cannibalized by capitalism, whereas the religious component remains for some who celebrate Christmas.

[-] U7826391786239@lemmy.zip 5 points 2 days ago

geoffrey chaucer made it into a romance holiday ~1380s AD. for 1000 years before that it was just a celebration of valentine. apparently the notion that it was supposed to replace lupercalia in ancient pre-christian rome is false

https://www.history.com/articles/dark-truth-valentines-day-lupercalia

[-] RampantParanoia2365@lemmy.world 3 points 2 days ago

Yes, I know. You just said that like 5 posts back.

[-] sparkles@piefed.zip 1 points 2 days ago

I discussed everyone’s plans with them in a socially acceptable way. Tomorrow I will swoop into the grocery store for clearance items in the bakery.

[-] TimboSlice@discuss.online 1 points 2 days ago

Hallmark Day

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