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Men - it's time to change (lemmy.dbzer0.com)
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[-] [email protected] 5 points 10 hours ago

I agree with the statement, but being vulnerable IS a weakness. That's pretty much what the definition of vulnerable is. Now, being vulnerable doesn't make you a weak person, but it absolutely is a weakness.

[-] [email protected] 2 points 5 hours ago

It says "a weakness" not "weakness".

[-] [email protected] 3 points 8 hours ago

This is semantic. Allowing oneself to trust others enough to be vulnerable in front of them is strength, not weakness.

[-] [email protected] 2 points 9 hours ago

I think it's an alternative use of the word. Being vulnerable in THIS sense is to open yourself up and expose your doubts and hard feelings.

It doesn't mean you don't have boundries.

[-] [email protected] 19 points 15 hours ago
[-] [email protected] 6 points 12 hours ago

I get to detach myself from responsibility and just nut?

fuck it, sign me up at this point

[-] [email protected] 8 points 13 hours ago
[-] [email protected] 4 points 8 hours ago

Those who see empty platitudes when they see them.

[-] [email protected] 11 points 13 hours ago

My parents.

[-] [email protected] 7 points 15 hours ago

Whatever your expression of emotion is, as long as it’s not harming anyone else, is fine. Recognizing that anxiety, for example, can manifest as anger - that’s important, because that makes it so that your anger doesn’t get pointed at anyone inappropriately.

You can’t just will your emotional reactions to manifest in different ways, but you can work to understand the roots of those reactions.

[-] [email protected] 1 points 11 hours ago

You can’t just will your emotional reactions to manifest in different ways

You kinda can, it just takes a lot of effort. I had a really stressful upbringing, and so anxiety began to manifest as keen focus pretty much by necessity.

[-] [email protected] 2 points 9 hours ago

Sure, with a lot of effort over time. Of course people can change. I meant in the sense of "I'll just decide to cry instead of rage now."

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