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[-] [email protected] 23 points 1 week ago

So over the weekend Mr P and I formally broke up. First there was an argument where a ramekin was thrown, then a calming down and proper conversation. We've been in separate bedrooms for years so not much is really changing. He initially asked me to leave. I said no, I've been paying rent for 13½ years to the owner of the property who isn't you. Neither of us can afford to move anywhere or pay market rent. Also with him on the dole, can't afford to pay for all car related expenses, which is needed with the children. I said I'm still happy to pay that stuff and I think he saw that it was a pretty good deal actually and he's best to eat humble pie and stick with it. It's in my interests for him to have a car to do child/school related things whilst I'm at work, and I'm happy to contribute to that. I told him (not for the first time) that he's welcome to see other people as long as discretion is exercised regarding the children. Since then things have been really civil between us. Let's see how it goes.

[-] [email protected] 11 points 1 week ago

I think you've made the right decision to be honest.

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[-] [email protected] 9 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Remember to take care of yourself! It's easy to get caught up in the kids, and Mr P, and just all the stress and difficult conversation, and you forget to care for yourself too! Treat yourself! Be it a cafe coffee, or a luxurious bath/shower, read your fave book/listen to your fav song, etc

Breaking up is incrediblely hard on the soul, especially if you still have to live together, but you are strong, kind, clever, and AMAZING!

YOU GOT THIS HOT STUFF!! 💜💜💜

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[-] [email protected] 9 points 1 week ago

That sounds like a positive approach to a shitty situation.

[-] [email protected] 10 points 1 week ago

Thankyou, I'm hopeful that we can work our way through the "not working out" situation as peaceably as possible. Especially for Elder Minipeeler, who at first seemed pretty bummed out but is gradually realising that nothing is radically different.

[-] [email protected] 10 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

I think it's better to separate and be honest with kids that things change in people's lives, than to keep pretending. The social lies wear on kids, they're still developing and things subtly being wrong fucks them up I reckon. Do you guys have support networks where one of you could take off for a weekend leaving the other alone from time to time? Go stay with a parent or friend occasionally just to get/give each other some space?

[-] [email protected] 8 points 1 week ago

for reals, I grew up in a fighting house and the goddamn divorce (and this was in the 1980's, so social stigma wahoo) was a goddamn relief.

I was five at the time.

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[-] [email protected] 9 points 1 week ago

It sucks that it was needed, but I trust that this will be the start of a happier life for you and the mini peelers

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[-] [email protected] 8 points 1 week ago

Hugs 🫂. I wish you and the kiddos all the best moving forward. ❤️

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[-] [email protected] 8 points 1 week ago

It sucks that things worked out that way, but I'm glad he was able to be civil about it afterward and it seems like you'll be able to make things work how they are for the moment.

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[-] [email protected] 8 points 1 week ago

Man , bringing home other people sounds super awkward. But congrats for finally setting boundaries

[-] [email protected] 7 points 1 week ago

Thankyou ❤️ He won't be bringing them home, he'll be going out.

[-] [email protected] 7 points 1 week ago

I'm so sorry to hear.

I hope you'll be able to work through it all in the best way possible for you and your family.

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[-] [email protected] 6 points 1 week ago

I hope this goes as smoothly as you need it to

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[-] [email protected] 13 points 1 week ago

Night walk. Hambam ended up rolling in some other dog's shit. Needed bath.

I was not very popular at first but he ended up accepting his fate.

Getting that dog into the bath wasn't very easy.

[-] [email protected] 12 points 1 week ago

I walked out of work at lunch yesterday. My boss was understanding about it - he is…aware of my week! - but I’m now in the grey area where I’m sort of waiting on funerals.

First one of the two is tomorrow

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[-] [email protected] 11 points 1 week ago

Great image to wake up to lol

[-] [email protected] 6 points 1 week ago

Good morning Gibson

[-] [email protected] 11 points 1 week ago

Woop there it is

Rent increase notice received. I had a feeling it was coming, as the places near me with a similar floorplan were increasing. I almost can't be mad tho, it's still $50pw under the comparable places lol!

Sent a reluctant message to the apartment using one of my two car parks, about starting to charge for it. I won't charge them if I find a job though, and what I'm asking per month is $150 less than other car parks around here too so 💀🤷🏼‍♀️

[-] [email protected] 10 points 1 week ago

I am more pasta then human... I may have eaten a bit too quick...

[-] [email protected] 8 points 1 week ago

There are more than a handful of nonnas out there (all of them) that think you haven't eaten enough.

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[-] [email protected] 6 points 1 week ago

I’ll be joining you on Friday….then we’ll take over the world!

[-] [email protected] 9 points 1 week ago

I've decided I need a detailed and comprehensive moving plan to make sure everything goes smoothly for my relocation. After a lot of research and considerable thought, here is what I have come up with:

Step 1: Put everything in boxes
Step 2: Move boxes to new house
Step 3: Unpack all the boxes

I think I've got this.

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[-] [email protected] 9 points 1 week ago

I'm thinking about what I would like for my birthday and the only thing I can come up with is a caviar tasting box.

https://www.yarravalleycaviar.com.au/product-category/packages-gift-boxes/

If I want something I buy it. I really can't think of anything else.

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[-] [email protected] 8 points 1 week ago

Did everyone stockpile machetes before they were banned today? It slipped my mind and I forgot to get mine

[-] [email protected] 9 points 1 week ago

This has to be one of the least effective and stupidest knee-jerk reactions I've yet seen. It would be more to the point to ban shopping centres imo. Or teenagers. Machetes are really really easy to make - long grass slasher machine blades make the best ones. This is traditional in the bush for clearing scrub and butchering deer/sheep and opening Queensland Blue pumpkins if you can't find the bow saw. Just screw the blade to a handle of some sort and sharpen. And I don't think they're going to ban council grass mowers anytime soon. Or Bunnings. Or pumpkins.

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[-] [email protected] 8 points 1 week ago

dear optichoice caller who refused to acknowledge "not interested"

I hope you enjoy the high volume youtube poop I put the phone next to, and the complaint to the DNC

[-] [email protected] 8 points 1 week ago

Usually we have Spotify on at work, but today we have the radio and they’re advertising a competition to win a ski trip to Utah and all I can think of is what if you won the competition and then were denied entry because border officials didn’t think it was enough of a reason to visit? I wonder if there’s the option to just take money instead, haha.

[-] [email protected] 7 points 1 week ago

Well I've had my "stuff I bought from Temu that is actually tiny" experience.

[-] [email protected] 6 points 1 week ago

we need pictures 🤭

I bought some iron on patches which are half the size I expected ( pictures coming )

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[-] [email protected] 7 points 1 week ago

yay, no rain on the horizon , I think I will to the city for a bit

[-] [email protected] 6 points 1 week ago

Famous last words. Been itchiing to get doggo out for a walk but everytime we're about to head it starts pouring for a few minutes and he hides lol.

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[-] [email protected] 7 points 1 week ago

$400+ for floor seats for One Republic at Sidney Myer Music Bowl? $180+ for terrace seats? Fuck that.

[-] [email protected] 7 points 1 week ago

For some of the worst audio quality possible in the live music capital of Australia, too.

[-] [email protected] 6 points 1 week ago

Sigur ros concert was over $400 and $200 for the nosebleeds.

[-] [email protected] 8 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

I was 4th row at Sigur Ros the other day and it was ~$220. Still a shitload, but not that crazy

[-] [email protected] 8 points 1 week ago

How was it????

I was desperate to go but missed out.

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[-] [email protected] 7 points 1 week ago

train delays all day from various punks walking out on tracks

wtf , this is intolerable

[-] [email protected] 7 points 1 week ago

I just broke my packing tape dispenser.

Fortunately it is just a plastic guard so I can still use it, I just need to be careful not to gouge the tape with the metal cutter.

[-] [email protected] 7 points 1 week ago

Maybe I've been too busy to notice but did I miss Autumn? Seems winter is here already.

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[-] [email protected] 7 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

I stand corrected. My Temu order is fucking AWESOME!!! I fucking love decorating my space!!! Aaaaargh!!!!!!

More photos on the weekend.

[-] [email protected] 7 points 1 week ago

I, too, would like to receive a cat in the mail 😂

[-] [email protected] 8 points 1 week ago

Put me in for an order too please.

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[-] [email protected] 6 points 1 week ago

I am exhausted and I'm still so far behind where I want to be packing wise. All this stuff seems neverending, and everything seems to triple in size once I try to put it into a box. At least I should be building some good muscle with all this lifting.

Miss Meow likes the stacked boxed decor theme, she's been having a great time exploring everything.

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[-] [email protected] 6 points 1 week ago

I don't think the heating is working in my workplace, I'm cold.

[-] [email protected] 6 points 1 week ago

My heater is getting a service this morning. In a few short hours I'll be warm. Glorious.

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