I've said this a number of times, but it's about who you know. Social Engineering. Find a job you want, find the people who can get you that job, and then do what's necessary to get yourself into their circle. Sometimes that's showing up to your local LUG, sometimes it's taking up paintball because some senior IT head posts pics of himself at the local range every weekend.

• Do your research.
• Adorn yourself in a manner that makes you look like one of their people.
• Stalk those motherfuckers.

You definitely need the certs even with a degree, so work on A+, Network+, Security+. When I started out, IT tech was touted as a career path where you don't need a degree if you have the right certs. I honestly don't know if this is still true.

I know about Windows Server Management (worked a shit ton with VMs in classes) daily drive Linux, do some real amateur game development on the side on my own so I know how to code, not great but I have experience there. Any advice on how to give myself a better shot?

All of these are home projects related to software. This might be your actual passion, but as far as getting your foot into the door in IT, you need to be decent in hardware as well. At bare minimum, you should have home projects that demonstrate some familiarity with hardware as well as software. Some ideas:

• I set up my own security camera system.
• I hooked up my home with various smart devices that I'm also managing with my own server. (See here: https://hexbear.net/post/4377896)
• I fix and build computers for my family and friends.
• I build my own home server from salvaged parts that is running various docker containers that I can show you the interviewers with my phone.
• I know how to take apart a monitor and put it back together. Random video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l6cgQZ8zT4o
• I took apart my old smartphone as a fun challenge.

I guess the point is that you have to show that you're not just some nerd but someone who is also handy. I don't know how good you are with hardware, but if you absolutely suck, you can always just buy used shit on eBay and try to disassemble it as practice using Youtube videos as a guide. Let your family and friends know that they can dump their old and broken shit on your footsteps. If you can't reassemble it, who cares, it's already broken junk anyways. This allows you to make mistakes without them being too costly. Better to ticker with your parent's old 15 year old laptop than the laptop that you're currently using to apply for jobs.

I got my IT job after taking some CC classes (and years of computers as a hobby. While the coursework helped, the main thing was impressing one of my professors enough that she recommended me for a job. "Networking" is the most powerful tool you can use. Since school has stopped being an option for you, I would look for other opportunities to build your personal network. Look for local clubs to join, such as a LUG (Linux users group). Also, look for non-profits that could benefit from some volunteer tech support.