Harris poll for Guardian finds people reconsidering major life events such as having children or buying a home

Americans are reconsidering major life events including marriage, having children and buying a home amid economic anxiety in the opening months of the Trump presidency, according to an exclusive poll for the Guardian.

Six in 10 Americans said the economy has affected at least one of their major life goals, according to the Harris poll, citing either lack of affordability or anxiety around the current economy.

Though Donald Trump’s tariff policies have only been in place for a few weeks, and though he has temporarily walked back on some of his harshest policies, the findings are a sign that Trump’s economic agenda could have long-term effects.

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[–] 145 points 1 year ago (22 children)

I'm an elder millennial. I feel like my life has spent more time on hold than otherwise. Economic crisis, plague, not-really-a-war-but-war, more economic crisis, watered down dictator. . .

Can I just die already?

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  • [–] 43 points 1 year ago

    Gen X, here. Feel the same. Move forward two steps, stop. Back up one, stop. Take three forward, take 4 back. Move up one. Etc. X got lucky with cheaper college and sometimes you could find affordable homes, but damn. It feels like treading water and maybe occasionally swallowing some since forever.

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  • [–] 28 points 1 year ago

    Can I just die already?

    I feel this. I also used to believe in and not mind the idea of reincarnation, but Jesus Christ would I hate to come back. I didn't procreate because I know there's nothing good on the horizon for future generations. It's become a nightmare to think I may ever have to come back again.

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  • [–] 12 points 1 year ago (4 children)

    "A crisis is coming!"

    Well I've been in crisis since I got laid off at Christmas so everyone, welcome to the show.

    Before that I've been trying to come out of my crises since Covid fucked my life up, still not fixed that.

    And then going back, my life is still hugely derailed from the past 2.5 decades of crises, macro and micro.

    So yeah it's just more of the same over here.

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  • [–] 15 points 1 year ago (3 children)

    I've been trying to get back to the life I had before it blew up in 2008. My 26 year old son says that the Bush Economic Crash of 2008 looms large in the lives of his friends. Many in his generation had their entire lives thrown into chaos in the middle of their childhoods, giving them a wired in sense of foreboding toward their future. They know that no matter how good your life is, the government can destroy your life with mindless policies designed to benefit a tiny few elites, at the expense of everyone else.

    No wonder that so many young people are thinking that Socialism/ Marxism/ Communism sounds like a reasonable alternative to whatever arbitrary system we have now.

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  • [–] 9 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

    No wonder that so many young people are thinking that Socialism/ Marxism/ Communism sounds like a reasonable alternative to whatever arbitrary system we have now.

    Plenty of societies have demonstrated that socialist policies do work. It’s sometimes called the “Nordic model”. We have the blueprint, but America is neoliberal (aka oligarchic/neo-feudal) and those who hoard all the wealth and power will not give any of it up without a fight.

    Marxism/Communism has noble ends - a classless, stateless, truly equal and equitable society - but there no viable means to such an end, as history has demonstrated, due to the innate wickedness and selfishness of human nature.

    The successful systems are the ones that still reward innovation, ambition, effort, and vision, but use regulation to prevent too much consolidation. Even the founders of the US recognized this, which is why we have “anti-trust” laws, a trust being any kind of captured control that stifles competition. Unfortunately, they have been left to rot on the vine, gone unenforced, and even deliberately weakened by neoliberal policy that aims to strengthen and cement an anticompetitive, consolidatory, neo-feudal caste of ur-nobility.

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    [–] 89 points 1 year ago (7 children)
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    [–] 73 points 1 year ago (12 children)

    Oh how the time doesn't fly. This will be the longest four years ever with the question lingering, will we even be allowed out? Will there be enough leftover to rebuild from? Will we learn the right lessons before its too late? 2042 isnt far off :/

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  • [–] 39 points 1 year ago* (1 child)

    Four years? That's might optimistic. Trump's already planning for a third term. He's not leaving the oval office alive.

    Meanwhile the little "color in the thermometer" progress chart on the back of the Project 2025 workbook is nearly half filled.

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  • [–] 24 points 1 year ago

    Theres always the chance that the US Balkanizes or the feds become otherwise irrelevant because of cascade failures. Remember the US has about a dozen empire destroying issues in the oven and Trump not only turned up the heat but threw in like 12 more.

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  • [–] 34 points 1 year ago (9 children)

    Rebuilding could take 10 to 20 years. If he's shit enough it could take two to six.

    If he does Herbert Hoover levels of damage there's likely to be broad motivation to take heavy handed action to fix it. Re-nationalizing land, nullifying contracts, and disregarding the impact it has on those who invested money or otherwise relied on the changes. Some of the programs being torn apart today are direct responses to trying to fix the problems Hoover caused.

    It's not a lot, but it's worth remembering that Hoover had a lot of similar stances to Trump. He made things so bad that America elected the closest thing we've ever had to democratic socialism, and people liked it so much that they elected him four times and Congress changed the Constitution out of spite.

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  • [–] 31 points 1 year ago (8 children)

    It could take decades longer than even that. America has experienced mind-boggling collapse in just 4 months. The damage to its reputation will take an entire restructuring of the powers of the executive branch to overcome. I mean, who wants to make a deal with an admin, when every 4 years it can go back on its word?

    We still have at least 43 more months to look forward to. The bottom hasn't even begun to drop.

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  • [–] 21 points 1 year ago (4 children)

    The compromising of things like voter data and social security databases has really disturbed me. Even if we have the best president in history next, how can we ever trust those systems again when an unknown number of people potentially have backdoor access to that info? I think a lot is going to need to be scrapped and rebuilt from zero if we're supposed to have confidence in it. It's not like the normal stuff like when we get a crummy EPA or FCC person and we can just roll some policies back or what have you, we have been severely exposed to unknown parties about many of the most private and personal levels.

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  • [–] 13 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    Poor uneducated people are disenfranchised within our current form of government. Instead of fighting their oppressors, they surprisingly give up more of their power to those oppressors. They do this willingly and enthusiastically to join the in-group on the surface level while reaping none of the benefits. In fact it will cost much of Trump's base severely.

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  • [–] 12 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    If you see it on the view of the Nazis they think they are the ones who have been persecuted for having to obstain from saying the ‘n’ word as so much worse a tragedy they've had to endure all these decades.

    If you’re considered weird to that mentality; I’d take it as a compliment.

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  • [–] 13 points 1 year ago

    Yeah it's very much like that thing, "I've seen what makes you cheer, your boos mean nothing to me"

    Now, what I do want to say is this: having spent my career surrounded by blue-collar men, there are about 1/3 of them that are the actual ringleaders for fascism. Whatever their camp is. Of the remaining 2/3, I would say half on a good day are still tolerable people. Misled, narrow-minded, problematic, check check check. But tolerable. And capable of being spoken to.

    Union organizers know what I'm talking about. You've gotta divide the workers into camps you can get to, and camps you'll never get to. It's part of the process, I've read the books.

    Now, those guys. They deserve to have the right people talking to them. It's not their fault the education system failed them. The media lies to them. That bullies seem to win everywhere they look.

    But for me, rn at this point in my career, fuck em. I'm done. I've tried. Over and over again. Fights, had em. I work for myself now and the less I talk to other electricians IRL the better. They can all suck a big fat one.

    :deep sigh:

    Eventually, my position may change.

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  • [–] 8 points 1 year ago

    As a boomer whose parents (both) were in world war 2, I listened to what the horrors that were perpetrated by the fascists and axis on the daily until I was a teen. I saw shows, testimonials and documentaries that all disappeared in the late 70’s and replaced with tamer stuff. I would rather die than live in a fascist regime.

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  • [–] 36 points 1 year ago (12 children)

    This is a weird connection to make, but since this started happening, my wife and I have been unintentionally saving money.

    I don’t think we’re doing it ‘on purpose’, but instead of the usual stream of random frivolity, we’re just sort of trimming back, and as a result, find ourselves with extra money to transfer to savings when we look at our accounts.
    I think we’re both just trying to be ready, should we need extra resources for whatever reason.

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  • [–] 16 points 1 year ago (10 children)

    Yeah same, we're saving because we dont know if shit could just hit the fan. I'm actually in the process of converting 50% of my savings into foreign currency. The US is finally on its way out

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  • Im Canadian and avoiding American products has saved me a lot of money, so much junk food we don’t need is American, and the off brand Canadian versions are even better and cheap. I never realized how much of my money went to American junk until this tariff thing, so I’ve stopped buying anything i don’t NEED

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  • [–] 35 points 1 year ago

    Would he just have a coronary already.

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  • [–] 25 points 1 year ago*

    The entire country is suffering from narcissistic abuse Sure some are enabling it but we’re all suffering

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  • [–] 24 points 1 year ago (21 children)

    These polls are misleading. 4 in 10 Americans have always supported Trump regardless of what he does. That hasn't changed.

    Maybe it's significant that he's lost support from the other 2 in 10 who voted for him, but if they seriously thought that he was the best candidate during the 2024 election, then their opinions aren't based on critical thinking either.

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  • [–] 33 points 1 year ago (19 children)

    4 in 10 who actually vote. Trump only ever won ~30% of the popular vote when you count all of the people who couldn’t bother to get off the couch. If “Didn’t Vote” was a candidate, it would have won by a landslide.

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  • [–] 9 points 1 year ago (7 children)

    Didn't vote means one of at least three things:

    "I think the candidate i support will win anyways."
    "I don't care who wins, i will be fine with any of the likely possible candidates."
    "I don't feel represented by anyone but i feel powerless to get someone on the ballot who represents me."

    Unless specifically polling non voters about the reason why they didn't vote we can't really tell.

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  • [–] 12 points 1 year ago* (4 children)

    There’s also the hidden fourth option: “I was disenfranchised by republicans, who made voting extremely difficult and/or prohibitively expensive.”

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  • [–] 17 points 1 year ago (3 children)

    It’s like a family death. You’re in trauma for a year and have to put off any major life decisions because of brain fog and anxiety.

    Trump doesnt get what that impact does doesnt do anything for business and is unsustainable.

    Then again he did bankrupt a bunch of casinos so it’s really on the public for voting him full well knowing he’s a convicted criminal and liar.

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    [–] 13 points 1 year ago

    My life has never been off of hold...

    Would be nice if the job I trained the better part of a decade for paid more than living expenses.

    Ever generation has less than 1/2 of the wealth as the previous, eventually we are just slaves

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  • [–] 11 points 1 year ago

    Republicans: We want Americans to have more babies!

    The science on how to make more babies: Stop electing Republicans!

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  • [–] 10 points 1 year ago

    Can you imagine how many babies they'd get if labor and delivery were free? How many parents would return to the work force if child care were free (or affordable)? It's cheaper for republicans to trap people in poverty.

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  • [–] 9 points 1 year ago

    I am reconsidering by thinking of moving out of the country lmao

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  • [–] 9 points 1 year ago

    I've been doing this my whole life.

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  • [–] 8 points 1 year ago

    So we just gonna die now, I guess?

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