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Anonymity (lemmy.dbzer0.com)
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[-] [email protected] 154 points 1 month ago

It was never just the anonymity, it was the lack of consequences as well. Combined those two often lead to people showing their worst selves.

Now though? Often those worst characteristics are applauded by others. It's disappointing.

[-] [email protected] 15 points 1 month ago

Also the best, not just the worst. I agree but I hate to be pessimistic. Back then we used to dig to the shit to find a few hidden gems. The amount of gems stayed the same but the pile of shit got bigger. I liked the internet more when it was more like island with a lot of activity instead of bridges everywhere (I know the irony being on Lemmy). I miss active bulletin boards. Reddit really killed forums. Everyone wants convenience instead of quality. And everyone seems to be in a hurry

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[-] [email protected] 9 points 1 month ago

Problem is, things are so divided right now that you can say anything and one half of the divide will support you just about no matter what.

[-] [email protected] 9 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

People are extremely desperate to live in a black and white world with no nuance or shades of gray, they want to live in a world of Right or Wrong and believe everyone should agree with them or they’re stupid

[-] [email protected] 112 points 1 month ago

Don’t feed the trolls

  • Long forgotten adage, internet
[-] [email protected] 8 points 1 month ago

I thought I could feed trolls before midnight?

[-] [email protected] 7 points 1 month ago

Dead Internet Theory suggests these racist accounts are all just self-perpetuating whether you engage or not.

[-] [email protected] 98 points 1 month ago

I still blame the algorithms. Angry people click more => let's assure they always get more to click.

[-] [email protected] 29 points 1 month ago

It's the for profit corporate capture really. When everyone started thinking of the internet as 5 websites and their bank.

[-] [email protected] 23 points 1 month ago

I remember when people would get seriously angry if you posted commercial speech in a communal area of the Internet.

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[-] [email protected] 18 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

I still blame the algorithms.

And I think that's a lack of memory. Where were those "algorithms" in flame wars on news groups, mailing lists, fora on the Internet & Web 1.0?

Even when the web became highly commercialized, there remained non-commercial sites of largely unmoderated, anonymized discussion & imageboards driven by the "hivemind": where were "the algorithms" there?

It's unrestrained people uninhibited from putting their unfiltered thoughts online to stir discussion: no "algorithms" required. "The algorithms" steer even the least sophisticated users to the content that captures their attention. And moderation maintains that attention by subduing those elements that would result in users ragequitting the Internet & missing those ads they scroll past.

Maybe we need to bring back ragequitting?

[-] [email protected] 10 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

You've misspelled capitalism.

[-] [email protected] 4 points 1 month ago

It's a gray line, as the drive for celebrity isn't strictly capitalist but is definitely rewarded under capitalism.

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[-] [email protected] 7 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Why don't people affected by algos just choose not to use them? I don't use any content-feeding algorithms beyond basic non-personalized sorting functions that I can examine the code of myself if I wish as here on Lemmy.

But people don't want that, or they'd be on Lemmy, Mastodon etc. People don't even use the subscriptions page on YouTube, they prefer the algorithms, they don't like having agency and they don't like making decisions. Some people even use shuffle on just algo suggested songs on Spotify.

Many yet, pay with their time via choosing to hear and see ads for this privilege.

Some even pay money for renting algorithmic digital slop. Every time Netflix raises prices, the subscriptions increase. People love the boot.

So aren't people to blame?

[-] [email protected] 4 points 1 month ago

Do you have any experience with creating a digital good and dealing with end-users?

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[-] [email protected] 5 points 1 month ago

Can we tackle the root cause (advertising) somehow?

If there's no incentive to farm clicks, maybe the circlejerk could stop.

[-] [email protected] 11 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

The root cause is billionaires.

There’s no stopping trolls completely, but they were self limiting when the internet was more disaggregated and a little less accessible. It’s greedy Big Tech, led by a few people, that weaponized them into world-scale attention farms.

Advertising is a huge enabler yeah, but I have to wonder if they could’ve leveraged other schemes back then, like the Patreon/Onlyfans model, crypto, or whatever.

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[-] [email protected] 42 points 1 month ago

Yeah but also targeted advertising and invasive data harvesting.

The internet was definitely better before.

[-] [email protected] 11 points 1 month ago

There was a long time of that happening and everyone being blisfully unaware. That's the period that feels like the golden age to me because we were getting all these new cool and free services not fully realizing what we are paying.

[-] [email protected] 29 points 1 month ago

Raising $600k after going public about dropping the N-bomb on a child might have something to do with this.

A few incredibly racist billionaires are financing endless waves of bigotry and brutality. Until they stop, this is only going to get worse.

[-] [email protected] 5 points 1 month ago

Hate is victimized now and it is a powerful tool for controlling the masses.

[-] [email protected] 28 points 1 month ago

I always though it was anonymity, but its more likely the missing human connection. On the internet, our thoughts are transmitted without seeing the person before us in real time, so some may act different, forgetting there is a person on the other side.

There's obviously people who don't give a shit, but they were just assholes to begin with.

[-] [email protected] 13 points 1 month ago

Fear of retaliation by the physical human in front of you as well. Some people are good because they believe in the value of goodness but a lot of them only act right when they can't get away with being awful.

[-] [email protected] 27 points 1 month ago

It's almost like a large-scale social experiment, with the result that there seem to be many profoundly evil people whose malicious beliefs are artificially pushed by billionaire "gatekeepers" to a point where they can appear socially acceptable, a few good people who have less and less say due to social media logic and content overload, and a large majority who just stand by and watch civilization go down the drain because they're too lazy to change their habits and just rely on someone else to fix this mess, if they even recognize the problem in the first place.

In this context, I think the definition of public opinion established by political scientist Elisabeth Noelle-Neumann back in the 1980s is once again highly relevant:

"Public opinion is the opinion dominant in public which can be expressed without risk of social isolation."

The spiral of silence : public opinion, our social skin (1984)

Noelle-Neumann emphasized that public opinion is not just any opinion, but specifically those views that are visible, vocal, and supported by the majority, making them safe to express in public. This ties closely to her "Spiral of Silence" theory, where individuals may refrain from expressing minority views due to fear of social isolation.

The great problem of our current media situation seems to be that these public opinions are increasingly artificially constructed since they just seem like majority opinions, even if they are not, because they get pushed so hard by the influential crooks controlling major parts of the Internet (social media and search engine monopolies and so on).

So I think today's web has become almost the opposite of what early Internet utopians had in mind.

[-] [email protected] 7 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Really well put. Thanks, as a fellow early internet utopian, I've had a lot of thoughts on this.

[-] [email protected] 5 points 1 month ago

I hope that doesn't sound too pessimistic. I wouldn't say all is lost, especially since there are definitely positive developments, of which the Fediverse is just one example among many.

Overall, however, I fear that technology alone will not change society, since it is always embedded into society itselfs and therefore functions according to its inherent logic.

So in Western countries, I unfortunately have little hope for the "mainstream internet" with its ruthless platform economy, because real change for the better would either require meaningful antitrust regulations or has to be forced by the consumers themselves —both seems highly unlikely, as the past 20 years have clearly shown in my opinion: Today, there are even more and even more powerful global monopolies, while people just won't stop to buy their stuff at Amazon because it is usually a little cheaper and so convenient that hardly anyone is willing to even consider all the comparable offers that do exist.

The same seems to be true of the media: fewer, but even more powerful conglomerates with significantly greater reach than before and platforms that can pretty much do whatever they want without losing too many users (x obviously censoring many viewpoints and run by a open fascist, reddit killed it's API as if it wasn't important so on and so forth).

In short, I fear that unregulated turbo-capitalism has done to the internet what it always does once monopolies have formed: Enshitification.

And this "enshitification" of our most important media channels is now showing it's ugly face in all the negative impacts on most democracies worldwide. I mean democracy only works with free discourse, the willingness to compromise, and reasonably informed voters. Unfortunately all of this contradicts the logic of today's so-called social media—at least when it comes to the few major platforms with their own political agendas and their greed for profit.

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[-] [email protected] 20 points 1 month ago

People on Lemmy are getting bad too, you can’t disagree with someone in the most inoffensive way without getting a response full of hateful comments or name calling. Like if had a face to face discussion with a stranger I wouldn’t be like “you’re a brain dead idiot and you’re stupid” that’s rude as fuck, but that’s just how people respond to each other around here and it’s awful

[-] [email protected] 20 points 1 month ago

This is completely false and not true. You’re a brain dead idiot and you’re stupid!! :@

[-] [email protected] 5 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

But their mom says they're cool

[-] [email protected] 9 points 1 month ago

you can’t disagree with someone in the most inoffensive way without getting a response full of hateful comments or name calling.

That is by design. Debate and counter viewpoints are an existential threat to both extremists and propagandists alike.

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[-] [email protected] 19 points 1 month ago

I don't know, the people sending death threats to anyone that calls their favorite internet personality dumb seem preety bent on doing so behind fake e-mails and names...

[-] [email protected] 5 points 1 month ago

Right, this is the other side of the same coin, and also feels like a part of what people seem to have forgotten about the Internet.

Before: Don't give out your personal info to anyone online. You have no idea who's on the other side!

Now: Hey, everyone, here's my name, and all the details of my life, and all the opinions I hold. Hope you all like it!

[-] [email protected] 16 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

“SHITCOCK”

(Quick edit: daaaamn that really was 21 years ago…)

[-] [email protected] 12 points 1 month ago

I kind of miss the anonymity of the internet. It's too easy to be ostracized now.

[-] [email protected] 11 points 1 month ago

It's genuinely disturbing how many information these sites have about us.

Clicking on a Xitter link gives them enough information that they could probably direct a reasonably accurate drone strike against you.

[-] [email protected] 6 points 1 month ago

And after browsing for a few hours on these sites they know you better than you do.

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[-] [email protected] 10 points 1 month ago

As soon as we figure out how to punch someone through the screen this shit is done.

[-] [email protected] 28 points 1 month ago
[-] [email protected] 5 points 1 month ago

Granted: you're now a lemmy mod

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[-] [email protected] 4 points 1 month ago

Not thru the screen. We just figure out where they're at, go there, and then punch them in the face like good old times.

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[-] [email protected] 9 points 1 month ago

Yeah turns out it wasn't anonymity, that was estimated because the internet has a greater amoun of dickery than real life.

But really, Assholes online are also assholes in real life. Same for kibd people. What the internet did was allow assholes find and network with each other, and make environment uncomfoetable enough that kind people leave. Only assholes are left.

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[-] [email protected] 8 points 1 month ago

But he's the dev. If we defederate we won't get support, and since the software is a janky piece of crap we need that support.

[-] [email protected] 5 points 1 month ago

Really like how the artist used the "? face" to symbolize anonimity and drawing the after with real faces to tell that anonimity is gone.

[-] [email protected] 5 points 1 month ago

I am guilty of thinking this. All I can say is... Huh.

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