I’ve been on lemmy for over a year now, and I just realized I used to read all those HackerNews articles + their comments, I haven’t done that in probably 6 months because the discussion here has gotten much better. What’s changed for you with Lemmy over the last year?

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[–] 67 points 2 years ago (5 children)

Started to participate in discussion more and pleasantly surprised actual conversations happen and the comment section is not flooded with generic bot shit within minutes.

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  • [–] 16 points 2 years ago (2 children)

    Yeah, that's something I really like about Lemmy. You can have actual conversations. On Reddit, on even an unpopular thread, any comment would be flooded by replies from other people. You couldn't just talk with one person.

    I don't mind other people joining in, but reddit makes it impossible to do 1-on-1.

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  • [–] 39 points 2 years ago (13 children)

    In my view, Lemmy ecospace became a lot more dark. People are snarkier, less prone to engage in polite conversation and divergent opinions get hounded.

    I also sense an increased tendency for doom and gloom. Nihilism is on the rise, as well.

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  • [–] 22 points 2 years ago (5 children)

    Would you say the doom and gloom is Lemmy specific, or more of a global thing, given the state of life ATM?

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  • [–] 9 points 2 years ago

    That's interesting because for me it's the opposite, or maybe I just don't notice it anymore. But when I first joined people were almost always hostile to one another. I feel like that's not the case anymore.

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    [–] 29 points 2 years ago (8 children)

    A lot more comments like reddit that are the quick (very tired) zingers. I was happy to get away from that but I'm sort of thinking of putting lemmy down if it gets worse.

    I don't need your "this." Or "broken arms" or "that's insulting to trash" etc.

    It's beyond tired. But it gets up voted and can dominate the comments section. I appreciate threads like this one that promote actual discussion.

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  • [–] 23 points 2 years ago* (1 child)

    I feel that, too, but also...

    There's a large number of news articles that it feels literally pointless to respond to with anything other than jokey derision because it feels like we've been talking to people about those issues for two decades (or more for some of us) and no one listened.

    So, with a lot of it... what is there even to talk about anymore and instead crack jokes to try to feel less dead inside?

    I fully agree, but at the same time find myself making jokey throwaway comments on the millionth thread about "turns out Trump was lying about his campaign promises!!!!" as if anyone with a fucking brain couldn't figure that out since at least 2015. It just feels pointless to engage with beyond comedy when the media continues to sanewash that guy.

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    [–] 24 points 2 years ago (10 children)

    Lemmy is teaching me things by accident.

    Most recently; I've started learning media literacy and now I can see all the same manufactured consent and narrative shaping that exists in legacy media and social media like Facebook and reddit; but in .world and lemmee too

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  • [–] 10 points 2 years ago (9 children)
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  • [–] 22 points 2 years ago (1 child)

    Lemmy has become my main social media outlet. For better or worse, Lemmy's just my kind of place. I'm off of all mainstream social media except LinkedIn, which I barely use, but keep around for work related reasons.

    I do still peruse Reddit, mainly for TV shows and niche subjects I can't find here. But I haven't logged in or posted since the first major exodus over the API pricing, and have no plans of returning.

    I do post on Mastodon from time to time, but the format is just too geared towards short form content, and ultimately just isn't my cup of tea.

    So yeah. I'm generally happy to be here with you all shooting the shit about politics, Linux, etc. Long live Lemmy!

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    [–] 20 points 2 years ago

    It’s actually had content for me now

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  • [–] 20 points 2 years ago (3 children)

    It's become clear that Lemmy is not about to take off. For most users, it's probably a fine Reddit clone, but it's not about to replace the big R.

    I'm sure that will change in 2025. 🧌

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    [–] 16 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (17 children)

    Starting to see different people reposting stuff on similar communities, which reminds me a lot of that other site. Not a huge fan.

    I've also started noticing people downvoting instead of engaging when they disagree with something as well, which is frustrating.

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  • [–] 9 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 child)

    I wanted to let you know there is an option in your settings so you don't see upvotes or downvotes.

    Lemmy (AFAIK) doesn't even show you your total upvotes (karma... whatever it's called) by default either. None of these imaginary points fucking matter.

    So why don't you do yourself a favor and uncheck these boxes and not give a fuck what others think about your comment.

    I know I have.

    (Lemmy is rad as fuck)

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    [–] 14 points 2 years ago

    More content and more comments. I basically only use mastodon and lemmy for my memes nowadays and as general social media.

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  • [–] 14 points 2 years ago (7 children)

    My participation has dropped a lot compared to when I only just joined. There is only so much us centric doomer content I can stomach, and Lemmy is so extremely political that it is impossible to just browse cat memes and have a good time. So I spend less time here I suppose.

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    [–] 13 points 2 years ago

    Well, I'm here now. So there's that.

    You're welcome. /s

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  • [–] 13 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (11 children)

    All of the "a vote for Kamala is a vote for genocide" spammers mysteriously disappeared

    Edit: my point is that they seem awfully quiet about Trump

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  • [–] 25 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 child)

    I mean, the vote happened and she's not running anymore, sooooooo not really a reason for them to keep talking about that issue?

    Also, I remember a couple usernames from some of the most vocal and I just went and looked and it's not like they up and deleted their accounts or stopped using Lemmy. They're still active, so they didn't "disappear."

    @queermunist@lemmy.ml was pretty loud about that opinion and they're still here, for example.

    I know reddit being flooded with bots for 10 years has made y'all jaded but real people with real opinions that differ from ours shockingly still exist.

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    [–] 12 points 2 years ago

    With the end of the US election, there has been a bit of an ideological demographic shift, but more of a strong wind than a foundational upset.

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  • [–] 11 points 2 years ago

    It seems more active now. Which has been great!

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  • [–] 11 points 2 years ago

    The cell phone apps are a lot better nowadays. They look a lot better.

    I've been posting more fedi content instead of just the popular links.

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  • [–] 11 points 2 years ago (1 child)

    Lemmy is my only social media interaction these days, the content has improved, and the communities feel more distinct than they did a year ago. That could just be me getting up to speed though.

    It was a nice surprise finding out that the left wing instances on here are actually pretty chill, way more so than on Reddit these days.

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  • [–] 8 points 2 years ago

    I peaked into r/communism and it's genuinely awful. Full of the most toxic people I have seen in the supposedly "Marxist" communities. Surprisingly Lemmy is way more chill than Reddit.

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  • [–] 10 points 2 years ago*

    I see a lot less but muh Media Bias/Fact Check now than I did a year ago.

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  • [–] 10 points 2 years ago (1 child)

    I feel like there's less Canadian content. After the Reddit API Exodus, there was a fair bit, but that dropped off.

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  • [–] 9 points 2 years ago

    Not enough jeans. :(

    Real answer: there's been an uptick in the amount of content lately, which is great. I've also unfortunately noticed an uptick in belligerent comments, which often detracts from the conversations taking place.

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  • [–] 7 points 2 years ago (7 children)

    I got banned from the Canada community and according to the mod log, it was for homophobia and bigotry.

    That really rubs me the wrong way because I’ve never ever posted anything like that. I’ve been the subject of homophobic and bigotry based bullying my whole life and the only comment I posted on that topic there was an account of my first hand experience of being catfished on Grindr and then outed as bi on the towns facebook page and subjected to ridicule and harassment.

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