Last day of work before Christmas is over, yay! Due to my work schedule my family is celebrating a day early, so tomorrow is Christmas Eve for me. Then back to work for real Christmas Day. It always feels slightly odd to be on a slightly different timeline from everyone else, but it is the time spent with family which is important, not which day it is on.
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Tonight was a very interesting experiment (and unfortunate lesson). The males of the house wanted Hungry Jacks, but Miniest wanted ravioli. So I ordered the takeout and got to work cooking the ravioli and making a simple Napolitano sauce to go with it. Her ravioli was ready and eaten with dishwasher loaded while the dasher was still waiting for the order. Then when the order arrived it was missing half of the items! Mr P's burger was soggy and cold and his drink wasn't cold. Had to reorder and wait again. A lesson that so-called "fast food" ain't fast at all sometimes, and you're better off with even a simple thrown together home cooked meal than that garbage.
I've gone off the whole uber eats thing. If it isn't cold, missing items, the driver put his dirty fucking hands in my meal and started snacking on it.
The boys need their head checked for wanting such rubbish when you make such delicious food (and you offered - not like they're demanding home cooked meals from you at all times even when takeaway would give you a break).
I just had such a beautiful morning. Met up with my chess buddy at what has become our regular cafe in Prahran, got a nice spot in the sun. Had a lovely cheese and egg omelette with avo. Played for two hours and didn't feel bad for taking up seats for so long because it wasn't that busy. Walked back to her place to meet her foster cat who was very shy.
Then I decided to walk home instead of tram because the weather is PERFECT. Did some shopping on the way, and because I felt amazing I decided to buy a scratchie and won $17. Walk home took about 1h15m and I feel amazing right now
That sounds like such a wonderful day that even I feel uplifted and happy reading it π
Agree, that is a bloody good day and gave me secondhand happiness too
Crisis averted, I spent the entire late arvo and evening sans phone thinking I'd left it in various places, got home just as Marge hit and still couldn't find it, major panic thinking I'd need to retrace so many locations in the dark and rain - thankfully I could whatsapp someone on my desktop to call it and found the damn thing sitting on the top of the loo. Honestly!
I've done a shit tonne today including sneaking into the office to use the dishwasher for the collection of takeaway boxes I've accumulated in the last 4 weeks and doing 2.5 hrs of work while it dried; I'm so tired now and need to put new sheets on but God, if this evening wasn't a message from the universe to stop procrastinating and set up the new phone already... urgh!! Shops, sheets, dinner, phone, sleep. I got this.
BTW it says 13C outside, still feels like a stuffy 23C in my unit despite windows open all day, goddamn this stupid heat box.
Was up at 4am for another spew. Drinking on Saturday really messed me up. I can't go hard like I used to. Didn't help that I didn't have enough water ugh.
Got some decent sleep last night though, the cat came and snuggled with me after my toilet trip which was just blissful. He nudges the doona with his head and paws my face to ask me to make him a cubby. Best friend in the whole world.
Potentially doxxing where I work but I'll be out of there soon, I don't really care. Christmas always brings out the crazies.
retail shenanigans
Customer: you should be stopping everyone who exits the store like they do at Costco.
Me: I'm trying my best but our exit isn't set out like their one. I can't stop everyone.
Customer: well you're not doing your job properly.
Me: OK
Another customer: this is a 17 year old girl and she's doing a great job, don't listen to her
(I'm quite a bit older than 17, time to start the anti-aging so I look 17 for as long as possible?)
First customer: calm down, you sound so angry. I'm a clinical psychologist that works with children.
I wanted to say and probably a shite one at that.
customer shenanigans 2
customer returns a pair of thongs and I go to put them with the clothing returns
Customer: I can put those away
Me: no, don't worry about it. We can put them away
Customer: scoffs I do it all the time for people at Coles and they love it. This is the first time someone has said no. Let me do it, I like being helpful.
Me: thanks but you don't have to, besides, they don't have a hanger on them
Customer: raises voice why are you picking at me? I put the hanger away in a specific spot in the store, let me put them away.
Me: gives up
She ended up actually putting them back. The register people said she had to be served at register 1 and not any of the others because she has a thing with numbers.
another one
The manager that was on decided to close the door 10 minutes before closing. It had been dead for the past half an hour. They aren't supposed to do that but anyway. We all go to clock off and leave at closing.
There was a customer behind the door.
Customer: your website said you close at this time. Why is the door closed?
Manager: incomprehensible
Customer: this is ridiculous, I should get the item I want for free.
Manager: you can't get it for free but I'll let you buy the item.
Marge is here! Thank goodness.
yes, the garden has been so dry
and we need it to put out the fires
In your opinion what is the worst alternative milk out there? For me it's coconut milk. If you add that to hot chocolate it does not taste like a Bounty. It tastes like Reef sun tan oil.
Slightly alternative take: alternatives to coconut milk. Evaporated cow with coconut essence is utterly unacceptable!
Netting up more apricot branches today. Takes waay longer than doing the whole tree as one.
But they're getting close!
Big tree this year. Hoping the netting works and will do some apricot hawt sauce.
Perfect weather for an early night.
I'm le tired
That's not a bad idea. Pat the cat to fall asleep lol
So, I didn't realise that the place I work at does annual reviews not 12 months after you start but at the end of the calendar year for everyone (when I was booked in for a "review" along with everyone else I thought it was just an end of year chat). It went really well - I got a bit of a pay bump in addition to CPI increase which was a really lovely way to end the year π after how things went down at my old workplace it is really nice for a change to feel appreciated in a meaningful way!
housing musings
Even then, as a single without parental support and years of lower wages/saving due to being on various visas, I still don't think I can get anywhere close to housing security without being able to save dramatically on rent while working at least 3-4 days a week.
Work has intimated that I could work remotely (and they clearly want me to stay on, so keen to be flexible).
So in Jan I'm going to seriously float the question to my aunt and uncle about staying there for 3-6 months. It'll be challenging working fully remotely interstate and living under senior relatives' roof, but it seems like the only way forward if I want to escape rental hell any time soon.
It does feel pointless working towards a deposit when it's like scrabbling desperately for a ticket to a train hurtling towards an inferno (re: climate change). I've accepted I won't be a homesteader and I'll be the first to go if society collapses. So this won't be part of some permaculture self-sufficiency dream.
Part of me also just wants to go fuckit and break off, travel for a while...
But I also am increasingly wanting a stable home base as I see my parents generation might be gone within ten years, and I don't want to float forever.
Just want some stability before shit hits the fan regardless - without feeling like I need to bust a gut and be shackled to work to make it happen either. Two bedrooms, sunlit and a small garden in a nice enough community - it sounds incompatible with wanting to not be trapped in a mortgage for decades... right? Right? (insert prequel meme)
I don't know what the calculations would be on making it all happen yet, but I think starting that journey is definitely on the cards for 2025. So many chapters are closing, this represents a way out, something definitely needs to change...
Okay, off to the kids clothes shop to hopefully get this overcharge resolved without any fuss, then heaps of washing, laundromat, and a bitta work.
E: the overcharge thing went really well, turns out there was a further 20% off the already discounted price so I got $33 back. Worth the trip! π
Also cheesed off someone by "stealing" their parking spot but cmon they were trying to turn right into it across Station St, Fairfield - I didn't see them, it's technically illegal and I doubt they would've made the angle park without mounting the median and maybe nearly collecting a cyclist. It was just a 30 min park anyway. It's a shit area to park but deal with it.
I hope the new year brings you more hope, clarity and stability. π
Have made holiday to-do list for jobs around the house. Feeling too hungover to make a start on anything today, so doing the list makes me feel like Iβm accomplishing something.
Itβs a pretty aspirational list and I feel tired just looking at it. If I knock off a couple of the harder tasks Iβll be happy. Especially the painting jobs, they have to get done. I haaate painting. Mass clean out of crap accumulating in closets needs to happen as well.
I wish to register a complaint about bars & cafes who choose plain mdf boxen as seating.. My elderly butt wants some upholstery!
Oh ain't they terrible. I feel like I have to shake myself off like cat after sitting on one of those.
Nomination for most commonly said phrase in this house: Get out of the cupboard.
So feeling a lot better today but still unwell. Tested negative which is good. But going to be a very lazy day.
Iβm so annoyed I canβt do dairy anymore. Thankfully generic bricks of soy milk are available and taste ok but everything else costs a fair bit more for less.
I miss those big tubs of basic home brand icecream and bulk yogurt. Also I would have liked to use the containers to plant in.
Woke up to find her like this. Fell asleep again for about an hour. Still like this.
We're still learning about how shadows work.
Wow the wind behind the rain is quite chilly. I got the rain-protected windows open to let it in the house. Inside temp dropping rapidly.
No vomit today from Tinyest. I had the shits last night but the gastro stop settled that, and Mrs b is fine. Weβre thinking maybe bad chicken or something from Coleβs deli yesterday, otherwise itβs the quickest gastro Iβve ever seen.
Hmm smells like smoke outside
I've got some disappointing news: toasters have been shrinkflated. I bought a cheapy from Kmart which looks identical to the cheapy from Kmart at the last place, but is apparently a newer model. My bread no longer fits. Not 'doesn't fit' as in too chonky, doesn't fit as in it sticks out the top and requires rotation to stop about a quarter of it coming out raw. It's only cheap woolies bread. It isn't anything fancy
Met a cool magpie in my backyard. I wanna be their friend and feed them and such, but that's not good for them, even if it's healthy food. Can't let em be dependent on humans.
Still gonna hang out while I have my coffee though I think
I'm really tired now. I might have a nap and let the dog spoon me.
That NBN box thingy hasn't moved from sunshine West since it was scanned there for the 12th or 13th time on Friday. Not sure if that's a good or bad thing. It could be good, cause they might have already dumped it at wherever the local delivery facility is ready to be scanned in tomorrow morning, or maybe they've sent it back to Adelaide (it took 3 days to/from Adelaide, so it wouldn't surprise me if there's a scan at 2:30 this morning through Adelaide again)
In any case, if it doesn't arrive tomorrow, I'm just going to call up the ISP again and ask for a new one and then return this one to sender whenever it does eventually arrive
I went shopping and I tried on some pants at Sheike I liked and I went a size smaller and if I wanted skin tight could have gone a size smaller again π It's so nice to get nice things and not feel like crap when clothes shopping because much too fat π
so I got these, they are soft flowing and cool for hot days https://www.sheike.com.au/products/bermuda-post-pant-grey https://www.sheike.com.au/products/sanctuary-pant-print