yeeeeeep thats the issue.
I mean, for me the absolute highlight of the trip is gonna be regretting sharing a seat with tinyest. He was a lot smaller when I booked it and I decided "Screw it, its cheaper he can just sit on my lap". Betting im gonna be kicked from here to there.
its more a money thing for me. I spending all this money to go spend christmas with them and they decide "actually, we might not even do christmas here" is a but sucky.
Sorry I probably wasnt clear. Grandparents have tons of space for us. but the extended family doesnt have space, and their place is 2 hours away. All their kids/grandkids and stuff are coming and they get first dibs apparently. Sort of makes sense I guess, they'd be... tinyest's second cousins I think?
Oh she wants to! and she wants to take tinyest which I squarely put my foot down on. Too much for him. and Frankly, I'm entitled to enjoy Christmas too!
Yeah tried that, went down like a lead balloon. Shes like "Well, if they want to go you can just stay at their place". I said "Nup. if they want to go I'm staying home. We can fly over when its cheaper".
thank you! thats my take on it. But the mrs is like "its no big deal".
I didnt HATE ghost in the shell, but I had no history with the source material so maybe thats the difference here?
need some of that DT perspective.
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So for Christmas this year we are traveling to the inlaws, this involves a short flight to a state we cant drive to (I'll give you 2 guesses). Not STOKED about traveling cause its MUCH easier for them to come to us, but whatever.
They often to a greater family thing on Christmas day. I've been asking for months what the plan is. Finally found out that Christmas day plans are 2 hours drive from their place, strike 2.
And that there isnt room for us to stay the night so we would have to drive back (for a total of 4 hours in the car) or spend over 1k on accommodation overnight, strike 3.
Given we only fly in Christmas eve (and i depart day after boxing day) Im a bit.... not enthused about the whole thing.
Mrs B is acting like im the asshole for not wanting to travel or spend even more than we had originally planned to do, I claim the goalposts have been moved and its too much to expect of us with a toddler. So, thoughts?
they are typically pretty good. I think the mrs volunteered us to go over this year... I said thats fine but next year we're staying put.