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Heya, your gal Siobhan here ( pronounced shiv-AWN). I'm a later in life trans (still new to that), pan, and unbearably weird. Trying to figure this place out, as I'd recently moved to some skies that have....darkened. Ask me anything, and it's a hoot to be here.

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[–] [email protected] 17 points 1 week ago

it's a hoot to be here.

You'll fit right in

[–] [email protected] 16 points 1 week ago

Welcome. Just a heads-up: You should be very careful with your personal info, especially with posting pics of your own face. Fash do roam this place and they have and will take advantage of this.

[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 week ago

biggs You sound super cool. I'm glad you found us.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 week ago

Welcome aboard comrade!

[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 week ago

Hell yeah. Welcome! I love you already.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

unbearably weird

You'll fit in just fine then. Hexbear is a collection of all the best kind of weirdos (positive connotation), including myself.

Have you tried Marmite before? It's life changing stuff, I swear!

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 week ago

not me, I'm pretty weird * (-1).

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Siobhan here ( pronounced shiv-AWN)

I thought t'was Shio-van

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 week ago (1 children)

There are actually about 3 or 4 different pronunciations

[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

Of course, it does... sadness

Judging by your name's national origin, the accent changes differently every 25 miles

[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 week ago

Heh, in some places every 25 yards.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

Hi and welcome Siobhan!! cat-trans

I absolutely love your name!! Sort of related but I’ve been trying to learn a little bit of Gaeilge (very, very) recently. The pronunciation has been a little bit confusing for me at first but it sounds wonderful when spoken. I should probably stop using Duo Lingo for that and find something better, since someone told me it’s awful for correct pronunciation.

I'm a later in life trans

Me too!!! I made the decision to transition earlier this year and have been on HRT for about 6 months now. While sometimes I really regret not figuring it out earlier, it really is never too late and I’m very happy at least my life is now heading in a much more positive direction. But anyways, there are more than a few of us older trans folks on the site, so you’ll be in good company here. :)

Anyways, I’m very glad you made it here and if you have any questions about the site, don’t hesitate to ask. meow-hug

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Learning the language is an act of love! If you're not able to find a múinteoir, then there are some great resources online.

Mollie Guidera offers online language lessons (www.irishwithmollie.com) and often offers free courses/workshops, and if I remember correctly she has social media with cute little videos on language learning and speculation on etymology.

Molly Nic Céile just released a lovely little book, Gaeilge i mo chroí (Irish in my heart), and also does some online lessons.

Manchán Magan is an Irish folklorist who explores very localized language to preserve words, phrases, and expressions that are particular to specific communities/areas. He also has a fantastic series of explorations on the connections between Irish and Indigenous struggle, and has a new book coming out about the common root of Irish and Vedic folklore/cultural traditional.

Ciara Ní É is a queer poet that I recommend, as she is part of a generation of queer Irish speakers that are at the forefront of building new language that expresses queer Irish identity without reliance on Anglo queer terminology.

Also, this is a really old classic, but Myles Dillon's Teach Yourself Irish, coupled with some online resources, maybe Rosetta Stone, will do much more for you than Duo Lingo.

Above all: music. Music is the living soul of language, if you want to understand Irish then immerse yourself in Irish music.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 week ago

Wow. Thank you for all this fantastic advice and resources!! The best thing I was looking at before this was a paid online course done by DCU, but Mollie Guidera looks like a better option, and the rest of the resources mentioned look fantastic as well. 💚💚💚

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 week ago

It sounds like you will be a perfect fit here 🥰

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)
[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 week ago

welcome! so nice to meet you!

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 week ago