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Hi New Here, I’m Oleg.
I just joined due to the enshittification of bluesky
Like many other cases
Anyways, how ye doin', Andrea?
hi! i'm doing pretty well! just having a chill saturday, think i'm going to make some vegan satay noodles for dinner soon
You seem awesome as fuck and I'm glad you're here
Greetings
We hate enshittification here but tend to be pro-enshitpostification
We love our trans comrades and we enjoy the freedom of speech to point out that slave owners should be shot
Yeah that about sums it up
Pro trains, pro trans, pro shitposting
Welcome! How did you find this place?
Thank you! Sage recommended it to me when i decided to leave bluesky due to the overwhelming influx of liberals, fascists and transphobes
liberals, fascists and transphobes
Welcome!
Come post your weirdest music in [email protected], we'll appreciate
i don't make music but i collect records and listen to everything from raw underground black metal (as long as it's not fascist) to the girliest pop music
Oh if we actually had to make the music we post that comm would probably be way more boring hahaha, don't let that stop you
Hello and welcome!!!! Hope you enjoy yourself and feel as cozy as possible here, and don’t hesitate to ask questions if you need anything.
Also wanted to mention we have a fashion comm as well if you’re interested: https://hexbear.net/c/fashion
Welcome!
That's amazing!!!! i'm trans aswell!!
Hello! Please share music recommendations!
some 2024 recommendations: cutting the throat of god by ulcerate from new zealand is my favorite death metal album of the year! songs of blood and mire by spectral wound is an amazing black metal record! dream talk by still corners is a beautiful dream pop album!
HOLY SHIT YOU'RE RAD
welcome! i'm a trans witch who appreciates the goth aesthetic a lot. nice to meet you!
favorite goth albums?
hard to say, these might all not be pure goth but:
siouxsie and the banshees - hyæna
dead can dance - s/t
killing joke - s/t
the cure - pornography
cocteau twins - treasure
are definitely on my shortlist
Nice. I prefer the more industrial side of dark music, but I do enjoy some goth myself.
Check this one out: Escape with Romeo - Autumn on Venus
i'm making a note of it!
i lean more towards black, death and doom metal even though my fashion and aesthetic is definitely way more goth than metalhead. goth fashion is just so more high femme aesthetics
at least you listen to some of the music...
As someone who's in the dark alternative scene, it's disappointing that while the aesthetics are very popular nowadays - the music isn't.
for sure, i think the music is more important than the fashion. dark and alternate describes 90% of what i listen to even though it doesn't necessarily belong to the goth scene. if i had to give up either my wardrobe or my record collection I'd say bye bye clothes in an instant
I found a YouTube link in your comment. Here are links to the same video on alternative frontends that protect your privacy:
hello! welcome!
Welcome, fellow goth.
big welcome!!!
Welcome!