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Hi! I just joined due to the enshittification of bluesky and hope to find new community here. I'm a goth trans woman interested in art, music and fashion.

i wrongly posted my introduction in the hexbear community so i'm just making a new one here when the original is deleted

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[–] [email protected] 31 points 1 week ago

Fortunately we designed this website to be terrible from the beginning so we don't have to worry about enshittification. Welcome!

[–] [email protected] 18 points 1 week ago

Hi New Here, I’m Oleg.

[–] [email protected] 16 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I just joined due to the enshittification of bluesky

Like many other cases

Anyways, how ye doin', Andrea?

[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 week ago (1 children)

hi! i'm doing pretty well! just having a chill saturday, think i'm going to make some vegan satay noodles for dinner soon

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 week ago

You seem awesome as fuck and I'm glad you're here

[–] [email protected] 15 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

Greetings

We hate enshittification here but tend to be pro-enshitpostification

We love our trans comrades and we enjoy the freedom of speech to point out that slave owners should be shot

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Yeah that about sums it up

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 week ago

Pro trains, pro trans, pro shitposting

[–] [email protected] 15 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Welcome! How did you find this place?

[–] [email protected] 20 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Thank you! Sage recommended it to me when i decided to leave bluesky due to the overwhelming influx of liberals, fascists and transphobes

[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 week ago

liberals, fascists and transphobes

same-picture

[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Welcome! bridget-vibe

Come post your weirdest music in [email protected], we'll appreciate

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 week ago (1 children)

i don't make music but i collect records and listen to everything from raw underground black metal (as long as it's not fascist) to the girliest pop music

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 week ago

Oh if we actually had to make the music we post that comm would probably be way more boring hahaha, don't let that stop you

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 week ago

Hello and welcome!!!! trans-heart Hope you enjoy yourself and feel as cozy as possible here, and don’t hesitate to ask questions if you need anything. cat-trans

Also wanted to mention we have a fashion comm as well if you’re interested: https://hexbear.net/c/fashion

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 week ago
[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 week ago

That's amazing!!!! i'm trans aswell!!

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Hello! Please share music recommendations! trans-heart

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 week ago (1 children)

some 2024 recommendations: cutting the throat of god by ulcerate from new zealand is my favorite death metal album of the year! songs of blood and mire by spectral wound is an amazing black metal record! dream talk by still corners is a beautiful dream pop album!

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 week ago

HOLY SHIT YOU'RE RAD

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 week ago

welcome! i'm a trans witch who appreciates the goth aesthetic a lot. nice to meet you!

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 week ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

hard to say, these might all not be pure goth but:

siouxsie and the banshees - hyæna

dead can dance - s/t

killing joke - s/t

the cure - pornography

cocteau twins - treasure

are definitely on my shortlist

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Nice. I prefer the more industrial side of dark music, but I do enjoy some goth myself.

Check this one out: Escape with Romeo - Autumn on Venus

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 week ago (1 children)

i'm making a note of it!

i lean more towards black, death and doom metal even though my fashion and aesthetic is definitely way more goth than metalhead. goth fashion is just so more high femme aesthetics

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 week ago (1 children)

at least you listen to some of the music...

As someone who's in the dark alternative scene, it's disappointing that while the aesthetics are very popular nowadays - the music isn't.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 week ago

for sure, i think the music is more important than the fashion. dark and alternate describes 90% of what i listen to even though it doesn't necessarily belong to the goth scene. if i had to give up either my wardrobe or my record collection I'd say bye bye clothes in an instant

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 week ago

I found a YouTube link in your comment. Here are links to the same video on alternative frontends that protect your privacy:

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 week ago

possum-party hello! welcome!

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 week ago

Welcome, fellow goth. howdy-skull

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 week ago

big welcome!!! cat-trans

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