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[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Why granny so jacked though?

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 day ago

Stirring cake mixes is no joke.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago

She's got some serious bingo wings right there.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago

Buy it and use it. It's fun kitch, don't let it collect dust. If it breaks, no worries, lots of it around.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago

Tastes change. As Millennials get older, have kids, buy large houses, they'll want to fill them. All it'll take is a couple of social media influences to bring back such kitch. I can't believe that redneck beards have been in vogue for so long, but they came back from the slimy grave of the 70s.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 day ago

Actually, i wish i had something from my grandparents. I found my grandfathers dvds in a second hand store.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 day ago

Throw a giant kitch party!

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

What's the problem? Just do with those what you did to the dishes when the babysitter died.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago

Right on top of that, Rose!

[–] [email protected] 10 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Ok I am an outlier here but honestly I kinda like stuff like that. I'm not gonna pretend it's worth a million dollars (like they would be cool with you selling it anyway) but real China is actually really pretty and sturdy if you take care of it and has a lot of neat little pieces of history and stories related to it. I like antiques and the look of old stuff.

However

My mom once tried to give us old pilsner glasses, and the story was "Grandpa bought them and didn't like them so they've been in this cupboard since then", and then got really disappointed when I was seeing if a friend of mine wanted one since he's a real beer guy who might like fancy glasses.

So yeah if you already have plates, and your family history isn't as great or interesting to you, don't feel obligated to keep stuff you don't like. Donate it (to anything other than goodwill or salvation army) or whatever.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Thing is everybody's gramma has a cabinet full of china because it's mass produced. Just like diamond engagement rings or high school proms people in the mid-20th century made up a tradition of gifting sets of china to young women because of all the fancy dinners every single middle class woman would be hosting throughout her life.

What happened is a bunch of fancy looking plates sat in cupboards in dining rooms for decades while actual meals were eaten off other also mass-produced but slightly cheaper plates that were stored in the kitchen cabinets.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Is it some universal thing? I thought it was USSR-specific thing.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago

Gramma's holier than god department store retail china is an actual problem in the United States. Some of it is fucking radioactive.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 day ago

Been there. I inherited my maternal grandfather's machinist toolbox. Had exactly one micrometer and two leveling blocks. The box itself was worth more. Old wooden kennedy. Wound up hockin it for gas money a couple years after getting it

[–] [email protected] 94 points 2 days ago (18 children)

no one under 50 gives a rat's ass about great grandma's "look at me i'm victorian high society" china cabinet. when i managed an antique store we had more old people coming in trying to sell their shit than we had anyone coming in to buy. went out of business because antiques are dead for the next who knows how many generations

[–] [email protected] 41 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (2 children)

It certainly depends on the item but I agree that no one cares about the junk grammy bought twenty years ago from Sears that was meant to look like the real stuff. At the same time, though, I've been on a real Meissen binge for the past few months. Good china definitely has some value and is beautiful to look at and display

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[–] [email protected] 28 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Oh gawd, don't remind me. My mom already tried selling it and couldn't find anyone to buy it. Of course, she blames kids these days for not valuing her obviously valuable collection...

[–] [email protected] 14 points 2 days ago (2 children)

you can't reason with them. no matter how much you try to tell my mom it's not the 90s anymore, she absolutely refuses to accept any reality other than her 10 giant plastic bins stuffed with beanie babies is a priceless collection

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Well, if the market so undervalues that stuff, the logical step would be to go buy other people's beanie babies for cheap, before people realize how much they are actually worth. And then sell heaps of them for profit, once people come to their senses.

That's obviously a very stupid idea, that you could pose to her, and let her argue why she doesn't do that. Maybe it triggers a realization about how value is constructed.
But maybe it's not worth the risk of her taking up on this very stupid idea.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

My grandma got into snowbabies lol

[–] [email protected] 69 points 2 days ago (4 children)

My mom has 3 different china cabinets and more glasses than the royal family. We only use the ones in the kitchen and maybe 4 in the new years.

The other day she said ahe would sell one of the sets, a very old time like tea set, but see that set was the last gift my granpa gave my grandma before he died and they are both gone...and my mom is getting older... and I had a anxiety attack thinking that she would get rid of that and started crying.

I think stuff Is just stuff, but idk man, it did hurt. Boy I'll have a bad time the day i have to get rid of those fucking glasses.

[–] [email protected] 34 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Step 1: Take pictures so that you can look back when you want to. The items are gone, but the memories are not. Step 2: Give them to someone who will appreciate them. Tell them the story so they can truly know what they meant to your family.

[–] [email protected] 38 points 2 days ago (4 children)
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[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 days ago (2 children)

My family moved my grandam out. So much glassware that they thought was going to be worth gold since its "local made back when this town meant something an had an industry and hard working people". Probably had a dozen different sets. I don't have the heart to tell her no one wants sets of old ass cups made in hick-town USA even if they are nice. Only took a few for memories.

Not to mention all my dads old toys they held onto thinking some one was going to make bank selling them. Just a trash heap unless you got someone who wants to make it there life's work selling smelly toys on ebay. The top we priced out was worth $60 minus the dry-rotting in a basement for 60ish years.

Hell, I got glassware from the house I moved into they just left behind and I can't get rid of it. May just leave it for the next sucker.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 14 hours ago (1 children)

I have to know, what sort of toys are you talking about? That your dad had?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 13 hours ago* (last edited 13 hours ago)

Old beat up matchbox cars that barely survived his childhood, and these army action figures in space capsules(can't remember the specific brand, think it was big in the 80s GI Joe?). Looked them up and in great condition could get $100 but these were ok at best. Most of the toys just went to my sisters kids if they were interested, not sure whats still around.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago

My aunt was losing her shit, that all stuff dropped in price from when she collected it in the nineties...

Tastes change.

[–] [email protected] 27 points 2 days ago (4 children)

When my mother dies and I have to deal with all her crystal, I’ll get roaring drunk and spend the night smashing those useless fucking things in the fire, cackling like a madman. I fucking hated looking at all that money spent on utterly worthless sparkly shit.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 2 days ago (1 children)

https://www.replacements.com/

There are websites that buy this stuff, this is just one example, and there are others. You can get a bit of cash without a ton of effort, just pack it up nicely and send it in.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 day ago

Spoiler alert: they're probably not buying mass produced China sets even if they are nice.

Source: me exhausting all avenues of trying to part with vintage China set(s) and replacements.com telling me to politely fuck off.

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[–] [email protected] 15 points 2 days ago

My grandad labelled all his tat with little coloured stickers. After he died, his children went round peeling most of their own stickers off so they wouldn't get lumbered with it.

Nobody really wants a bunch of nicotine stained nick-knacks. Most of it ended up at the charity shop.

[–] [email protected] 19 points 2 days ago (1 children)
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[–] [email protected] 12 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

These teacups are much more charming than stacks of mass-produced printed mugs.

On the other hand, Grandma, you'd better not know that I'll be washing them in the dishwasher on a daily basis.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 day ago (2 children)

In 40 years time there's going to be a bunch of 30 year old Gen-Betas going "What the fuck am I supposed to do with all my grandmother's Rae Dunn crap? All this tacky white porcelain, just huck it in the ocean and let it erode."

[–] [email protected] 1 points 14 hours ago

Lmao my niece and nephew are going to enjoy inheriting my brother's hundreds upon hundreds of D&D minis.

At least we use (some of) them to play with though, they're not (only) for the display cabinet.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago

"I've been trying to complete my Dad's collection of games on steam, in the last year I've completed 365 games and gotten up to 1%!"

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 days ago (2 children)
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[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 day ago

What, the cabinet?

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I go all out for Halloween. I've learned it's cheaper to buy Garage sale/thrift store stuff like this for creepy decorations, than it is to get stuff from Halloween stores or even the dollar store sometimes. I have the coolest "potion" bottles made of old decanters. The massive influx of stuff that came into thrift stores after covid started, was awesome, in the most morbid way.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 14 hours ago

after covid started

Because of Marie Kondo right?

in the most morbid way

... oh 💀

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