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[–] [email protected] 61 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Dubai. A cultureless fake city in the desert, full of posers.

[–] HobbitFoot 18 points 1 month ago

One of the strange things I saw with Dubai is that the civil-site design is just horrible at the edges of developments. You can tell that the emirate could spend money to make buildings, but the buildings don't form a city.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 month ago (1 children)

So like Vegas, but with less booze and weed?

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[–] [email protected] 51 points 1 month ago (3 children)

Honestly speaking, Dubai.

Not because of slavery, poop trucks, questionable government policies, etc.

The real reason to me is that it does not offer anything traditional or historical. Yes it has some five start restaurants. Yes it has some big malls. Yes you can do stuff like desert driving or hot air balloons. These are all stuff that could be done anywhere else for cheaper.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 month ago (1 children)

The one thing I liked was going over the creek for a few dirhams and strolling through the historical souk.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 month ago (1 children)

That's literally the only 'old' bit, but I was still constantly pestered by people trying to get me to come with them to look at handbags and sunglasses, and I do mean constantly, to the point where I just left because I couldn't be arsed anymore.

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (3 children)

I know it's unrelated to the thread, but I'd personally never go to a country that doesn't treat, women, gays, apostates etc as equals, I think these countries are absolutely terrible and I'm not fooled by them having "show cities" where they pretend that they're not that way.

A country that still has a medieval mindset in the third millennium is not getting a penny from me.

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[–] [email protected] 30 points 1 month ago (6 children)
[–] [email protected] 28 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Big deal, they have a tower just like this in Vegas.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 month ago (1 children)
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[–] [email protected] 19 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Now that they're basically banning cars, it might be worth a visit again

[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 month ago (1 children)

They didn't actually ban cars. Only reduced traffic to certain areas.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 month ago (2 children)

I've heard Finland is on the up and up with clean cities.

Apparently the popo there are quite heavy-handed when it comes to littering and such.

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[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I think Paris is a great city that I really enjoy visiting every time I go there, but you're perfectly right that it's incredibly overrated, anything with that reputation really must be, nothing that exists in reality could possibly come even close to such a myth.

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[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 month ago (3 children)

Wtf? How?? (and I'm not French)

[–] [email protected] 19 points 1 month ago (1 children)

While there is tons of nice place/stuff to do in Paris, many people see it as a perfect, romantic, ideal whatever city, and a visit there the trip of a lifetime.

Paris is a 10 million inhabitants urban area with all the associated problems,

Imagine thinking you're in the perfect city and being stuck in a crowded train, then in traffic, and falling in any possible tourist traps, from the barely legal but legal low quality, high price restaurant to the pickpocketsand other petty crime

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Went to Europe for my honeymoon and Paris was the first stop since the wife hadn’t been to Europe. She thought it was dirty and underwhelming.

A nice city to see for sure but for sightseeing and museums. Felt like New York City in a way.

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Screenshot of all the interesting places I have been or want to visit in France. Note the lack of dots in Paris. There are far, far nicer places to spend your time in France

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[–] HobbitFoot 12 points 1 month ago

Paris has been romanticized a lot in media, to the point where the Japanese embassy has to have staff on hand to handle the dispair of Japanese tourists visiting and getting disappointed.

I remember Paris being a pleasant large Western city, but it is still a large Western city with all that it entails.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 month ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 month ago (2 children)

I'd always heard people talk about how dirty Paris is, but it was so clean when I visited last year. Admittedly my point of comparison is San Francisco, but still.

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[–] [email protected] 23 points 1 month ago (3 children)

If you're Australian, Bali.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

Thems fighting words, where else can I spend my centerlink on a bintang singlet?!

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[–] [email protected] 23 points 1 month ago (1 children)
[–] HobbitFoot 10 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I feel like you need to be in a certain mindset to enjoy a theme park like Disney World. If you aren't in that mindset, the place is a saccharine place of over-stimulation.

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[–] [email protected] 21 points 1 month ago (3 children)

Venice. Smelly, super crowded and everywhere is a tourist trap trying to extract $$$.

[–] [email protected] 17 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Disagreed. I loved Venice. Was crowded but was very pretty and interesting, and had great food. You don't need to go to the expensive tourist places for good food. As always, see where locals eat.

[–] HobbitFoot 10 points 1 month ago

Yeah. The best idea of eating in Italy is to eat in areas without good views. A hole in the wall place that looks a run down diner served amazing squid ink pasta. Also, a lot of bars will sell snacks that are real food; three of those is enough for dinner.

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[–] [email protected] 20 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Switzerland. Don't go unless you're perfectly happy spending 50+ USD for mediocre food per day. It is incredibly fucking expensive.

[–] [email protected] 22 points 1 month ago (1 children)

It might be expensive, but still worth a short visit. I've got a shockingly bad memory, but I'll never forget the awe I felt waking up to a view of the Alps.

[–] [email protected] 24 points 1 month ago

But you can have that in Austria as well or France or Italy. They are all in the Alps. Or even not as tall parts of the Alps in Slovenia or Germany.

[–] [email protected] 20 points 1 month ago (1 children)

If you’re from the Midwest, anywhere in the Midwest. It’s all exactly the same.

Source: Went on crazy long road trips as a young adult looking for something new; ended up moving somewhere completely outside the region later.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 month ago (4 children)

I'm from Canada, only been to Minneapolis once but absolutely loved the city. Would certainly consider moving there, but it being smack dab in the middle of buttfuck nowhere is so sad.

Good food man. One of the best designed cities in the U.S. imo.

Sparse, but underrated.

People hog the left lane and don't respect flashing to pass. Fuck is up with that? Some of the most inconsiderate, yet slow drivers in America.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (2 children)

Flashing your lights or highbeams to pass is seen as quite agressive in the US. It isn't taught in drivers ed, and the general interpretation I hear most people have of it isn't "Hey, could you let me pass?" but instead "Hey! Fuckface! Stop driving so goddamn slow and get out of the damn way you shithead!"

Doesn't help that in my experience, the only people flashing to pass are aggressively tailgating me when I'm already 10 mph or more over the speed limit.

Better to just pass on the right if there's room. And if there isn't room, fuck off telling someone to get out of your way. Not like they can get over anyway.

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[–] [email protected] 19 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Cruises. It's literally people who are so terrified of international travel, they bring their home culture with them on a boat. Even if the mechanics of cruises are generally nice, they are filled with, and cater to this demographic. Personally when I am traveling, too many other Americans or Germans kind of ruins the vibe, so a whole boat of them is like purgatory.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 month ago

International travel for people who hate international travel

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[–] [email protected] 18 points 1 month ago (5 children)
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[–] [email protected] 18 points 1 month ago (5 children)

Two of my least favourite places I've visited have been CancΓΊn and Phuket. Both were minor stops in larger journeys, and I had fairly low expectations, but hot damn these places truly sucked ass. The countries they reside in have some truly great stuff, but you won't find them in these places.

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[–] [email protected] 17 points 1 month ago

Cruise ships. Not really a destination but I hate them so much.

[–] [email protected] 16 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

Please don't go to Salem MA in October. It is a gorgeous small city and my favorite place to be, but during October it becomes so insanely overcrowded that it poses a huge problem for the locals.

Go during summer instead, it's a little cooler than most of the US

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[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 month ago

miami. orlando (i.e. disney world and universal). las vegas. dubai. any other middle-to-upper class playground.

on the other hand, so people cannot say i mentioned anywhere in the center of capitalism: i'd love to meet ireland, scotland, brittany, galiza. the museums in new york, london, madrid, barcelona and paris are indeed something to see. the historic buildings and excavations in rome are of interest. and restaurant, cafΓ© and bar-trotting in madrid, valencia, barcelona, paris, vienna, amsterdam, rome, naples, tokyo is something i'd love to do.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 month ago

Never go to a place because it's popular, if you wouldn't go there if nobody else was there, you probably won't enjoy it when other people are there.

If you have a deep and strong interest in a place or a thing, it's great to visit no matter what. Low season might be better

[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 month ago (4 children)
[–] [email protected] 17 points 1 month ago

No, Ohio is appropriately rated, which is why it is no one’s vacation destination.

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[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 month ago (3 children)
[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 month ago

Egypt is great for diving. The nature on the Sinai peninsula is at least interesting, if not gorgeous in places. Political instability and the general culture do mean that you can have a bad time there, especially as a woman.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Went 2 weeks there:

  • First week was only about diving and was probably the most beautiful thing I will ever see in my life.

  • Second week was about visiting the monuments and while they are astonishing cultural and historical bangers (except the pyramids which are impressive from the outside but just some dull stones in the inside) people living there (even those running restaurants or hotels) are invasive as fuck and not worthile your time...

However we also rentend an airbnb for 2 days and even if the room was clean it looked a bit gloomy but the guy was very nice and friendly we even ate a pizza with him and watched a local TV movie (some sharknado rip from their country XD). It was a way better experience than In a stared hotel with all commodities...

In general, going the tourist way is mostly a bad experience in every country.

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[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 month ago

I liked my first all inclusive resort in Mexico very much. The second one had mediocre food and it rained heavily for three straight days, so much that the rain came through the thatched roof, and people pestered us to sign up for time share type presentations. It just looked a lot better than it was, and the beach was very basic.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 month ago (3 children)
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