idk, as a bi ex-christo, I think it's kinda cute that you think it's so hot, and I don't think your line of thinking is entirely off-base. "the sex this person wants to have with me goes against their religious upbringing, but they can't help it, they want it that badly," I mean, how is that not hot?!? 🥵 and how is that your fault?? 😂
if ladies weren't so hot, maybe the christo brainwashing would have stuck better 🤔 good things ladies are so hot!
and how is that your fault??
Idk, feels guilty to be turned on because of their trauma
are they having PTSD symptoms or are they just shy because Jesus or what? in what way is this trauma manifesting?
I'm not in your head or heart, but what you describe sounds to me like you're turned on by the transgressive nature of the act and not the idea of (re-)traumatizing someone
No no no. You are turned on by helping them overcome their trauma. That's fucking based.
I kinda know what you mean, I'm really proud that despite her CPTSD due to the absolutely horrific and tortuous SV she had to survive as a child my wife chose me. And that we built and environment where she could choose our child. Also she is bisexual, so even though she could have chosen anyone she still chose me even though I'm a man. I consider it the greatest honor I ever got so I'm very conscious that I want to live up to that.
I will also never tire of posting:
There are no bad emotions only bad ways to deal with them.
Let those among us who have not hung out with sex workers and tax collectors, who have not gone around with 12 "disciples" and died passing onto their mother their "beloved John" as her new son throw the first stone 
Not toxic, to the xtians here it ain't personal (well actually on my end it is, not at you tho) but hell yeah.
Like damn, I'm better than a whole religion, Jesus Christ, and literally God??
Low bar (well I guess Jesus was a helluva twink) but damn right you are 
Toxic? No. A little weird? Sure, but who isn't.
Trauma dumping during foreplay is weird idc what it’s about
(It’s healthy and normal to trauma dump at other times don’t get me wrong)
I mean same as with other trauma when it happens, it happens. Tell me you weren't raised in a religiously abusive family w/o telling me you weren't raised in a religiously abusive family lol (not shitting on you, just glad you hopefully weren't)
I took a "field trip" to protest an abortion clinic in 5th grade at my catholic school and my mother still looks at me in disgust if I mention my agnosticism 
God forbid I told my family about other stuff... I just think its a mood killer, not trying to come back at you
i, too, long for validation
There is something extra hot about thinking about going to hell for the sex you're about to have
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