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[โ€“] [email protected] 15 points 7 months ago (3 children)

John Brown wants the trans mega to get to 1865 JB-shining-aggro

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[โ€“] [email protected] 15 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago) (2 children)

So uh excusing my shameful little autism outburst kobeni-sweat sorry...

I don't think Chapter 9 is that hard yet. A healthy challenge yeah, but my biggest stumbling blocks were needing to look up obscure solutions. Chapter 8 was all backbreakingly tight timing challenges; Chapter 9 seems to be playing with momentum a lot, and while I dislike the bounce mechanic I can get through it okay.

Celeste is pretty damn hard, like I'd be curious to know the stats on how many people used Assist, (I still have not) but it's not impossible. I can do it actually. badeline-bruh

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[โ€“] [email protected] 15 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago) (11 children)

Was reading a manga called X-Gender about a gender weird person, and they talk about the loneliness of not being straight or gay

I'm not lonely, but it is weird that these categories don't really apply to me anymore either. I like femmes, but I'm not a straight guy or a gay woman.

spoilerI'm actually just wifeosexual

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[โ€“] [email protected] 15 points 7 months ago

laser session 7 (i think?) done

honestly the pain isn't the problem, but when they're doing the upper lip the cool air blows up your nose and it's hard to breathe. kinda makes you involuntarily panic

bought myself a couple of books afterwards while i was there

[โ€“] [email protected] 15 points 7 months ago (8 children)

I need more skirts. Just got my swimsuit bottoms (a "skort"), and I think they're going to work out. However, other than that I still only have TWO other skirts, one of which needs jeans/leggings underneath. I love skirts, I always thought I would never be able to wear them, or I wouldn't look good in them, but they have given me some sort of gender euphoria "power creep" and now they are better than any of my shorts (I really thought those would be my thing). Not gonna lie, this has me wanting to try a dress as well bridget-pride

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[โ€“] [email protected] 15 points 7 months ago (5 children)

what if it was the hexbear trans magathread and we were all blair white and this bit sucks sorry

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[โ€“] [email protected] 15 points 7 months ago (26 children)

So I'm really starting to wonder if I have autism, and I think you might see why.

Is there anything (book, youtube video, anything) on like... social norms for women/trans women? I have spent my entire life analyzing how I need to act as a guy and now I'm really struggling to understand where the boundaries are and what's expected of me. Some examples:

talking about genitalsI didn't know some no op trans women would want their genitals referred to as a clit, and that didn't even enter my mind as an option. What if I had said/done something that upset someone? (I call it a penis, she tries to correct me, and I don't understand and think too literally about it.) And like, if you're going to say "oh well how would you feel about someone doing X thing" this would never have come to my thought process. I never would have considered someone calling my penis anything else? Why would I be upset by that? And apparently a penis is different then a dick/cock? Its confusing and I don't want there to be more out there like this where I end up upsetting someone cheems

Can I say I have a stupid girl brain in a jokey kind of way? I feel like I've heard some people say that about themselves, but I also feel like maybe people would see that negatively.

Literally what is up with calling people girls vs women. I am so confused ohnoes

And like... expectations and how people will perceive me. I just don't understand and keep thinking but getting no where ohnoes

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[โ€“] [email protected] 15 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago) (2 children)

I feel so trans and so happy right now duck-dance

I can't think of anything to post but please give me your girl vibes

edit: okay listening to songs with a woman lead is such a bop I love it

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[โ€“] [email protected] 15 points 7 months ago (1 children)

I'm beginning to fear the power of the megathread.

The mods must feel like Oppenheimer rn

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[โ€“] [email protected] 15 points 7 months ago (3 children)

Realizing we have trans ghouls stfu-terf and trans ghosts vivian-shrug yet still no trans goblins

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[โ€“] [email protected] 15 points 7 months ago (8 children)

badeline-disgust Been watching this banger video about compulsory heterosexuality n feminism, but

lil bit of transphobia discussionsomehow Princess Weekes brought up... the Michigan Womyn's Music Festival? No way, it's actually real?? It doesn't just exist as a bit in Nevada??? Ended in 2015?????

Anyway the video has a couple statements from the Michigan Womyn's people in it, and it contains one of the more bizarre things I have ever seen: the term "trans womyn", spelt with a fucking "y". What does this even mean, relative to "womyn"? What's the difference? Who the literal fuck are these deeply unserious dorks??? wut

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[โ€“] [email protected] 15 points 7 months ago (5 children)
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[โ€“] [email protected] 15 points 7 months ago (2 children)
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[โ€“] [email protected] 15 points 7 months ago (2 children)

I just looked past the thing in the fridge I was trying to find, multiple times.

Is this male brained behavior because of not being able to find something in the fridge, or am I just a silly i-love-not-thinking girl?

There is a wrong answer.

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[โ€“] [email protected] 15 points 7 months ago (7 children)

CW: suicidal thoughts, emotional flashbacksThis week marks five years since my roommate got married. This started a huge existential crisis for me, including suicidal thoughts and withdrawing from pretty much all my friends.

I've been getting panic attacks every time I go into work this week, it feels like it's from remembering that wedding. Literally feeling detached, like I'm piloting my body. But now that I'm really questioning my gender, I feel like it's staring me in the face that I'm just in a big holding pattern. I want to figure out how to speak up for myself.

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[โ€“] [email protected] 15 points 8 months ago (4 children)

Are the crystal hearts in Celeste meant to be obtainable without a guide? madeline-deadpan

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[โ€“] [email protected] 15 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago) (7 children)

When I sing it's like the karaoke fail in DE but 10x worse. Are there any first-time-since-elementary-school-singer + already-voice-trained-transfem combo guides out there???

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