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[–] [email protected] 36 points 11 months ago (3 children)

Idk about you but every activity is about $100/month too. I have kids in dance, $100/month per kid. Same with swim lessons (yes at the YMCA too). Looked into ice skating lessons and it's the same. I want my kids to be able to try things but there's no way we can afford to do more than one activity at a time and that's a stretch sometimes.

[–] [email protected] 14 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Pff. Piano lessons, guitar lessons... That's about $300 a month if they're going weekly.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Well, shit. I was just about to start shopping for those, and now I've got sticker shock.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 11 months ago (2 children)

Yep. She has drum lessons once a week. That's all we can afford. And that's just her and a drum teacher, so it's not even like it's a ton of social interaction. I'd love to get her to do other classes and things like that, but we can't afford them.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Yeah and that's another barrier, start up cost. Instruments are expensive. I grew up playing hockey and if I want my kids to try it it's around $2000 just for one season.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 11 months ago (2 children)

We were (somewhat) lucky on that end. Her drum teacher sold us a simple drum set for $500 a couple of years ago and we've just added bits to it since then. Considering how much drum sets can cost, that was a bargain.

But we also had two incomes at the time. We're down to one now.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 11 months ago (1 children)

A snare drum can cost $500, easy.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Yeah, this is definitely not a high-end drum kit, but she's a kid and she's not going to be playing gigs any time soon.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 11 months ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 2 points 11 months ago

For sure. I just wish she'd practice at home more often. Sigh. Kids.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 11 months ago (1 children)

As a percussion instructor, it makes me happy that you are investing in your child's talent by getting them lessons!

[–] [email protected] 2 points 11 months ago

Thanks! She really likes it. I think it's a good way for her to get aggressions out that she has trouble getting out in other ways.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 11 months ago

Only $100/mo? You're lucky! My nephews' tennis and violin lessons are way more than that. Like multiple times more. You must live in a LCOL area.