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submitted 2 years ago by Hohsia@hexbear.net to c/chat@hexbear.net

Spent a morning out on the town on my day off, and everyone is just fucking buried in their phones 24/7. This realization was so absurd to me

Of course I’m not exempt from this shit, but no wonder people are having so much trouble making friends and creating meaningful relationships in this day and age. So fucking bleak

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[-] Frank@hexbear.net 116 points 2 years ago

I firmly maintain that phones are a symptom and not a cause. The cost of going outside is much. Many third places have collapsed under the crushing weight of austerity. Our time is ruthlessly regulated. Transport is expensive. Everyone is tired and sick.

Phones, social media, are what's left.

This 100%. I also maintain that heavy social media usage is a coping mechanism just as much as it is a cause of mental health problems. You wanna talk about an opiate of the masses? I watched my parents exhaustedly zone out in front of the tv to deal with their shitty fucking jobs for decades. Now I’m doing the same thing except with my phone.

[-] SkingradGuard@hexbear.net 47 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

The cost of going outside is much.

I literally can't afford to get a haircut right now agony-turbo

[-] barrbaric@hexbear.net 35 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

Been cutting my own hair for 5 years gang. :bad-haircut:

[-] Commiejones@hexbear.net 16 points 2 years ago

It gets better. I've got 10 years experience and I do almost as good a job as any hairdresser ever did.

[-] bigboopballs@hexbear.net 9 points 2 years ago

that's cool. do you just shave with electric trimmers?

[-] Commiejones@hexbear.net 9 points 2 years ago

That's how I started (dog grooming clippers). Now I use scissors most of the time and sometimes touch up with clippers. (when I remember to charge the battery)

[-] ashinadash@hexbear.net 15 points 2 years ago

I resorted to not cutting my hair and asking my wife to trim my bangs. So many split & dead ends

[-] UlyssesT@hexbear.net 28 points 2 years ago

This seems like the most correct take.

[-] Cromalin@hexbear.net 20 points 2 years ago

yeah you can get a phone and internet cheap compared to ]anything else you might want. it's no surprise people spend all their time online given the material conditions we're forced to live in

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