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[โ€“] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Take a clue from the amount of arranged marriages that end up full of love and happiness. Love and happiness in a relationship is a choice, and once you choose it, it will grow forever. Then it will never feel like you settled, it will feel like you are happy. This is the lesson from all the marriages of people who has never met each other before marriage but then end up happy and in love forever.

[โ€“] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Conversely true for a lot of abusive situations.